Hey guys. Started doing some voluntary work some 4 months ago in this place. Definately a HB10 girl who i hit it off with straight away. Knew she was in to me from minute one. She's text me numerous times telling me she's into me. We've kissed a few times. She obviously gets quite a lot of interest from males so i've never given her the attention most males would. Followed the game quite well in this situation IMO. However, i haven't been in a lot these past 3-4 weeks. And she contacted me asking where i was as she was missing me. So, when i went back. She ran straight up to me, jumped on me with her legs round my waist. 'I've missed you so much'. Really intimate. However, this new guy has recently started there, and she's all lovey dovey with him the past few days. Even kissed him as i walked the two today. (Though he doesn't know we're into eachother). So, a little baffled as to why she's doing this. Constantly giggling around him (To the extreme as though doing it for attention). She also looked at me as though to say...'How are you going to react to this?' I know she's not into him. How would you guys go about redeeming the situation? I've stayed calm and confident and shown it's not bothered me one bit. Sorry for waffling on! Just after some advice. Said guy has actualy left as of today. So there'l be no more him! She's just turned 18* Some extra info. Cheers

Well have you guys have an understanding that your bf/gf or did you just want to have a good time together? If you did make up to be gf/bf relationship then something went wrong. When I get I gf I make it clear to her that if she wants we can be together and have fun, but if she makes out with other guys and does things like that I will not tolerate it. The reason why girls do things like you just said is because they think that they will do this and still have you and these kinds of girls will walk all over you. So make it clear to her you wont tolerate such things. Good luck!

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Cheers for the reply. We weren't in a relationship at all. It's just she's telling me she's into me. We're kissing. And the following week she's all over this other guy. But she's doing it for the attention, i feel. I can assure you she won't walk over me. In fact, if i was extremely flirtacious with a girl in front of her. And go as far as kissing her, it'd fuck her off no end. Like i say, i'm just not sure how i can sort this situation out. Definately trying to get me jealous.

What are you asking? Sounds like you are kinda beating around the bush with this girl. Why haven't you two has sexy yet?

Smooth, to be fair. You're right. I should have nailed her by now. Numerous times. What i'm saying is, it's me she's into. However, she's playing silly games in order to get a reaction out of me. It hasn't worked before, so she's taken things to a new level by kissing a guy in front of me & acting all casual about it.

I think she is acting this way to obviously grab your attention. Maybe hoping you will actually make your move. You say she tells you she is into you right? Have you made any gestures showing her that you are into her?(besides kissing) Girl won't chase forever.

Told me numerous times she's into me indeed. I haven't really made any gestures showing i'm into her, no. Maybe she's doing it to encourage me to come and get her. She did say though, I'm not gonna wait around for someone who's not into me. What i've done is not give her any attention like others do. And though it's worked, and created attraction. Which i'm happy with, it's time i made a move before it's too late. Cheers!