Hey guys
I've had my girl for around half a year. She says she gets wet even if I'm just touching her around the waist while giving her that "special" eye contact, or if i give her one good kiss, so I know I'm still attractive to her at least.

She also says she is "coming", and apparently does every time we have sex (8/10 times anyway).

However I don't think she actually is coming. I'm her first, so I'm thinking maybe she is misinterpreting what coming actually is.

Because, when we do it, she doesn't claw at my back/moan loudly/writhe in pleasure or gush out heaps of fluid and contract when she says she is coming.

So I'm either
a) Not making her cum at all, and never have
b) am giving her shit orgasms

Now as you can probably imagine, this makes me feel really bad. She tries so hard to please me by buying kinky outfits, doing stuff I like etc (no need to go into details), yet I don't even know If I've made her climax.

I've only been with 4 girls so my knowledge on what a girl orgasming looks/feels like is not vast.

What are some definite ways of telling if she has had an orgasm?
Is her vagina tightening a real sign? Does it always happen? (I haven't felt that happen with her)

And when having sex, what are some good things to do during penetration?
I think penetration is my sticking point, because during foreplay I can make her beg for me usually - so I think I got the "Getting her ready" part sorted.
Maybe i have a small dick or something lol. It's definitely not porn star size, but around average, (slightly thicker than average but also slightly shorter in length)


I cant believe I'm talking about my dick on a forum, but I think in this case it might be important information.

There are two kinds of orgasms.. Theres the clitoris ones and the vaginal ones.. Lucky ass women, men don't get a balls orgasm lol

Anyway, from my experience, there is usually a clinching, and releasing of the vagina while the girl is coming.. Also, you can feel they're entire body tighten if your paying attention.

There are week orgasms that you would never be able to tell though, like when you would masturbate and it would just suck so bad lol.

I used to have trouble knowing the same thing dude so don't worry. You'll get it after enough experience.. You would rather make the girl have an explosive orgasm then you have one yourself wouldn't you? Thats how it is in the beginning..

Just know, not all girls moan, not all scratch, not all scream.. If you want that stuff done to you just tell her.. She'll be happy to do it

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hey Fuze, that's actually quite helpful.

Thanks a lot

Yup, she usually will tighten up, start breathing faster, and another sign that you're on the right track (not always 100%) her cheeks, neck and chest will flush slightly.

Also, not all girls can cum only from penetration. Actually its much, harder to achieve vaginal orgasm. So don't forget her clit.
for example, while spooning, or any other position play with her clit and outer lips while fucking her. That will drive her mad!
Try different positions!

And don't forget to kiss her, maybe talk dirty, cause for women its very important to be "in the right mood".

With one of my exes I noticed something funny. At some point I had my hands grabbing that ass and one of my fingers was placed right on her asshole (not inside, just casually touching it LOL). Anyway. When she came, I noticed her asshole would loosen up as she cums. So I tried that several times, always the same. Tried it with other girls, had luck with some.
But seriously, you can't tell 100%. Who cares though? For women it's not all about the orgasm.

Try and carry on fucking/playing with her... 9/10 if she has really climaxed she will sort of be resistant to it i.e. 'need a minute'.