so ive been gaming a 10 in school for a couple weeks.

so the end of the lesson comes, and she calls my name,
"How long have you been playing?? (guitar)"
"oh, a couple months. im learning flamenco."
"are you good?"
"id say im alright."
"if i give you a song, could you play it to me?")
"um, yea sure. what, i'll teach you it?"
"yeah!"


So i have a song right here...that i already had masterd before hand.

how do i ask her to come back to mine..or how do i even isolate her using this.
do i isolate her?
i have never been here before...ive never isolated anyone either, and with this girl being this goodlooking..i am completley clueless.

what to do lads???!

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Yo mate .

As always, i wouldnt ask, i would tell her. I would say something in the line of:

Hey, you still interested in learning this song? if she says no, well, bummer i guess
if she says yes, then say: ok cool. Saterday(any given day) 1pm at my place. dont be late.

i hate people who are late, but its not necessary that you add it . Key is, dont ask, tell her what you want from her. It is not forcing her as she can always refuse.

Plain and simple. More to come on this subject btw.

cheers and good luck!

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Once she says that your suppose to go... Yea sure, ill teach you it.. Whats your number? We'll set this up"

You had the opening right there

I like LD's approach but I wouldn't suggest you offering her to your place right away.. It'd be better if you made it a play at the park thing because you don't seem experienced enough to pull the my place date thing off.

The parks also a lot more romantic if your going for the LTR...

And just a note, Under no circumstance should you be gaming a girl for a :couple of weeks" and not have done anything with her yet

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thanks for replying, i could be actually isolated with this girl. although, do i ask for the number or not...what im thinking is she'll flake off when i pull my phone out.

as LD knows, ive asked her before to go out, she smiled and said mabey. well, what i said was: "we should get together somtime! i want to get to know you better."

she has recognised that i dont need her, and ive been acting normal and not awkward since the flake.

im gonna check this post in the morning just before i go in...im off now.

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hmmm. i would do this but in my experience if a girl says maybe she is saying no nicely.

personally under them circumstances i would keep her as a friend and go after someone else preferably someone she will hear about not from u.

fuck her best mate. would be a good bet.

Is there any reason for you to believe this (e.g. have you asked her before and she's said "no")? Or, is this simply a matter of you having low-self confidence and not owning the frame that you, YES YOU, are PRIZEWORTHY! If you've got it settled in your head that she'll say no, its quite possible that'll reflect in your behavior towards her and be interpreted as awkwardness and/or a lack of confidence. Get any nagging doubts out of your head before you ask her. Stop being so scared of a 90+lb 5'0 whatever girl you could probably toss with one arm. Do you cross the street a block away when you see a little Chihuahua walking down it?

If she's saying "maybe", or expressing any ambivalence it just means you've yet to convince her, and its your task to spark her interest more so that she gives you a definite "yes". And at worst, if the maybe was a no, she'll tell you that after you've persisted a bit more.

hey mate.

Look, so like i said, i would ask her about the number, then tell her (yes, dont ask, but tell her) where to meet. I like the idea of Fuze, as it doesnt have to be at your place. I wouldnt ask for her number right away. If you guys had great fun, perhaps a kiss or whatever, then say something in the line of: this was fun. we should do it again. This is my number, let me know when.

But ofc, this is only me =). I think the most important part is just you to be alone with her, and the rest, let it flow. Be yourself and go for what you want. Basically, its al you need to do.

cheers and good luck!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you