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I know you have a bf and I respect so if I'm out of line just tell me, but i would like to get to know you a little bit because you seem like a good person. How about we meet for a casual lunch sometime?

Hmm. Here's what I think: saying to her things like: "I know you have a boyfriend" disqualifies you. Unless you just want to be friends with her. But If you want to game her, here are a few tips.

Women with boyfriends, can have affairs with other men. These men I'm talking about are those who are better than their actual borfriend. If you want to game her, you have to become better. Make her laugh harder, be there when he isn't, use kino on her, do things no one else has done to her.

Don't tell a girl you want to know her, simply do it. You must not ask for permission. It's not illegal to get to know someone. If she doesn't want it she'll tell you.

If you want to ask her out on a date, ask her like she had no boyfriend at all. If she's interested she will accept, easy as pie. If she mentions that she has a boyfriend, you could say: "Oh, Im sorry, you must have thought I was hitting on you, I was just trying to be nice "[Read this from Jay Wa or something] or something like that.

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Ehh you could be wasting your time. Unless you do something like the following:

A guy asked my girlfriend out on a few dates, she said yes twice because she didn't want to hurt his feelings.

Now, you need to make it clear its going to be a date so the above situation doesn't happen to you (where you get led on). No mixed feelings, be clear so she knows what you want.
Then if she says yes, you know you're probably in. Of course she still might resist, but at least you have a chance to disarm any of those sorts of obstacles one on one with her.

Lastly - make sure you want this girl so badly that she is worth it.
Because keep in mind that if you score with this girl, you have two potential issues which may/may not affect you.

a) You will have temporarily caused havoc to another guys life.
b) (most importantly) Many guys, even the calmest, react with violence if a guy hits (especially if successfully does so) on his girl. I've known and heard of literally dozens of guys who have reacted with violence, sometimes stuff which can make you cringe.


My personal advice, which to be fair I only REALLY got this mindset after actually finding a good girlfriend and being in a happy relationship - seek other girls.
There are billions out there, and unless this one is throwing signs your way as an escape route from her boyfriend, you will cause a lot of drama.

And iv got lunch. So I know she is at least a little attracted to me. She did say we aren't calling it a date which I usually wouldn't be down with but I only spent a few minutes with her when I met her which means she literally has almost no idea who I am and I certainly dont expect her to break up for someone she does not even know. I see this meeting as a chance to find out if she's worth my time and for her to get to know me. At the end I was thinking of telling her its not happening again as long as she is with her bf. Good idea or does she need more than one meeting to figure that out?