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I'm dealing with a tricky girl at the moment. I don't know if she's bi-polar or what, but it's like she's two girls in one. What's even more strange is that this bi-polar-ness is only toward me; no one else.
Sometimes she'll be flirty with me, hinting for me to take her out, touching me, complimenting me, and being overall very nice. Believe me, I know interest when I see it. Then, in as little as a few hours, she'll start being cold, pretending I don't exist, and rejecting my flirting attempts in front of our friends. Come to think of it, she's at her worst when there are more of our friends around. And almost all of our friends are female in that particular social circle. She is shy and does not appear to be the kind of girl who would fuck with me for her own sinister pleasure.
At night, she starts texting me and I can't get rid of her. If I don't respond in 5-10 minutes she sends another. The other night I was on the phone with someone so I wasn't replying to her texts at all for about an hour. She ended up sending 4 in a row, with the 4th one saying something about how I must be mad at her and she doesn't know what happened. She is also ridiculously caring. I had 3-4 beers the other night and drove home and she made sure to ask that I made it home safely etc.
I have been careful not to fall for what I perceive to be a barrage of shit tests, so I've been sure not to smother her with compliments, pay too much attention to her, etc. What's amazing is that if I pull away, she pulls away just as much. If I start showing her more attention and being nicer to her, she returns the favor tenfold. It's almost like her reaction to everything I do goes completely against the normal pickup rules.
Anyone know what is going on? I've been trying to read her and I just can't do it. Just so it's known, my end-goal with her would be a LTR if possible.
Fuck what anyone else says here, but if you like her, and you're sensing she's really feeling things too, I'd ask her what the deal is (not in that language, however). Otherwise this is all just an exercise in mental masturbation and being a party to continuing with all the game play.
Pretty soon the PUA Puff Party Committee will roll up in here with their 101 interpretations as to why she's doing what she's doing. Human behaviour is pretty damn complex, anyone who thinks they've got the answer as to why she's doing what she's doing is a fucking no-nothing nitwit who should only be made a mockery of and ostracized from humanity.
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