Hi

I just split with my gf and now I'm single I feel really really motivated to get laid and maybe one could say I feel a bit desperate to get laid. Im worried though that if I talk to lots of girls and come across as quite pushy and driven then it will look desperate. But then I think isn't that how PUAs are? They talk to lots of girls and come across as very driven and let the girl know exactly what they want?

eg I've text this girl who I know fancies me (she is my friends friend so she has told my friend) and I have text her twice this week while I was out asking if she wants to come round mine..I guess that looks desperate because it looks like I'm asking her just because I haven't pulled in the club.

But what about just the way you are in a club. What is the difference between looking desperate and looking like you're confidently going after what you want?

That line is crossed the moment you step into her frame (e.g. that she's THE PRIZE).


Think about that one.

Think harder.

Think again....

Now go to the nearest sink, turn on the cold water faucet (usually the one marked with a blue dot or "C", short for "Cold"). Now splash some cold water on your face and get about your day.


Safe.