Alright.. So last night this 9 is texting me asking me when I get home.. We played some tricks on one of the dudes she's seeing/was seeing, she had me text from my phone pretending I'm her brother.. Apparently she's been seeing this guy for a while and has been lying to him and saying that she's sick in the hospital.. Obviously she's not, she's sitting right next to me about to set this dude up.. So she gets over to my place and I'm sending this dude the texts for her.. She's been telling me how she wants to be thru with this guy, she's ALWAYS talking down to him, calling him a bum, a boy, a loser, etc almost everytime she's on the phone with him.. and he still calls her like a total chump.. I feel bad for him but at the same time, this dude needs to learn.. Anyway...


She wanted me to send him texts to apologize for constantly arguing with her (as her brother). So then he texts me back saying he's going to call her and apologize. This is exactly what she wanted, because she wanted to bitch him out in front of me.

Her phone rings. I get the popcorn, she gives him the business.

Its him whimpering on the phone for 15-20 minutes and getting totally dominated by her.. It was fucking weird.. Like I felt bad at first, like, horrible, but then I just started to laugh cause I remember when I was first in love .. But this guy is 25 so there really isn't an excuse for him.. It was sort of like being behind the scenes of a bitch, and she was giving me a full tour. This dude is on speaker phone and she would mute the phone and we would just laugh at him in between.. This sounds evil but imagine hearing some of the most AFC shit and letting a woman take a total crap on you and you still sit there like a bitch.. I mean its obvious to me that she gets a huge kick out of controlling dudes and I let her know straight up that this kinda shit is impossible with me, it wouldn't be worth the effort. She respected that. So that convo ends, we kiss and then she heads back to her place. I'm just kinda like, what the fuck just happened?


Not going to lie, I respect her for using her power over men, its a turn on for me only because I'm basically from planet Krypton when it comes to that shit.. But in a way I think she's addicted to the power, its her way of preening to me, and it makes it hard for her to actually cut these people off. Not sure how to deal with that going forward because I'm not totally sure if she's sincere about letting them go, but at the same time these same AFC dudes just get in line to take another beating. Its a self fulfilling prophecy, something of convenience. I do want her to boot these other guys for real, I want to take the wheel, but its one of those things where I don't want to communicate any sort of jealousy about it. Its really just selfishness for me. An exercise. An ego trip. Anyway, just thought I'd share this.

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