| I know the norm is to always call instead of text but honestly ive gotten equally good results with texting. It gives your approach a sense of Plausible deniability in case you're worried you might be communicating too much interest too quickly. The goal is only to create a spike in attraction, and then to be laid back and let HER do the chasing. The best seductions are the ones where the seduced feel as though they are doing the seducing
Text her whenever u feel like it, dont over analyze the situation. Theres nothing wrong with directly conveying your attraction for her, as long as its not seen as a desperate type of attraction. He who waits, masturbates. Embrace Action, never sit around wondering if itd be a good idea to do an approach or to escalate. Your question about seeming too needy is out of context. Its not the act of texting that will make u seem needy, its HOW u text or talk to her. If shes taking 30 minutes to respond but you reply in 2 seconds, she retains the power position. If you barrage her with texts and compliments while she barely reciprocates, you will come off as desperate. You have to display caveman secksuality. Let her know you're DTF but if she says no, you still have a plethora of other bossoms to take refuge in.
As for your gf knowing about PUA, irrelevant. First, obviously she shouldnt... NEVER tell a girl about Game, you will ALWAYS live to regret it. Second, when a girl does know about your diabolical talent, play it off with Natural aloofness - amused mastery. The more you worry about it, the more you ACKNOWLEDGE it as a problem, the more it actually becomes one
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