I can get girls but when I do I'm worried that they will fancy me.I just want sex at this point in my life but I feel that girls find it hard to not get emotionally involved. When is the best time to let a girl know that you just want sex and not a relationship, and how do you say it?

One night stands after a night out are kind of implied I feel.. But what about if I meet a girl at the library and ask her to go for a drink with me? And what happens if it takes several dates to sleep with her? Id feel like I'm leading her on. Even just after the first drink I'm worried that she'll think that a date means I want more than just sex...I don't want to lead anyone on and hurt peoples feelings, but I also want to sleep with some sexy 9/10 that I might meet in the library

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Just think of how little these girls care about the feelings of all the ugly losers they've callously rejected in the past, and maybe even led on just to get free drinks. Then wonder why the hell you should care about her 'feelings'.

Revel in the fact that you're somehow capable of getting revenge on her, on behalf of all the inadequate men who she's callously turned down for not being good enough for her high standards. Give her a taste of her own medicine, it's about time a sexy girl found out what rejection is like.

It's quite risky to mention to a girl that you're only interested in sex because it might make her go off you. If you've already fucked her you don't care if she goes off you because you've already had your orgasm, but don't tell her before the sex because then you might not get to fuck her! But why not just stay with her in a relationship so you can get an endless supply of free sex with a sexy girl?!

You also state your not looking for a relationship before your fuck her... If she wants a relationship then just let her go, theres endless amounts of women to sleep with everywhere.

We're not here to get revenge on women who value themselves enough to even have high standards. Women with some dignity and self respect because I damn sure don't want a women with low standards..

And dan, PLEASE stop giving people advice dude.. What are you doing? Do you honestly think you know what your talking about?

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Awesome.

You say that, but you seem to live in some PUA fantasyland, whereas for most guys there actually aren't endless amounts of attractive women to sleep with. It's ridiculously foolish to risk cockblocking yourself when you get lucky enough to actually get a chance to get laid!
So given the choice between an ugly obese girl with high standards and a beautiful model with low standards, you expect us to believe you'd pick the ugly obese girl because she had high standards? Pull the other one - literally!
You don't need to be a non-virgin to know that it's incredibly stupid to unnecessarily say anything that could easily cockblock yourself.

Its not cock blocking yourself, it sparing the feelings of another human being... Another soul.. Why hurt someone if you don't have to? Just to get what you want?

Shut up dude.. Your an idiot

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Hold your jizzes.

Best way is to sometime while you are with her is to tell her about the fact that you are not lookig for a relationship because you just got out of one. Tell her you want to have fun and meet people, develop good friendships while going towards your ambitions.

Never address a tricky subject directly.

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"When is the right time to tell a girl that you just want sex?"

Never. You can only paint the context for sex to seem as though it is occurring naturally, not by force (which is rape), or coercion (which will lead her to feelings of regret/buyers remorse unless she's just looking for a lay).

Yeee. This is really just about asserting your values. You can do it the above way, or:
"I don't like when girls try to rush me into a relationship. Sex can be a lot of fun without them pushing me."
She will take note of this and apply it to herself.

I tell girls I like being single, that I'm just out having fun, etc.

You can't be a player if you tell girls right off the bat you aren't looking for love. You don't have to say you only want sex, because hell, who only wants sex? I'd rather have a few girls who are cool to hang with that I see casually than

I think that it depends on how you frame the convo... Alot of guys get suckered into a relationship eventhough all they want is sex because they talk to her as if they are trying to wife them up..

Instead, frame everything as "having fun" and "sharing experiences"... I tell girls all the.time that they're cool and fun to hamg out with.. even in bed, i express that i am enjoying the experience and that im gona make her enjoy the experience as well

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Damn I ROFLOL'led my ass of reading dan's first comment. Epic stuff
Still laughing


Damn, ok got myself back 2get4.

That's classy.

Yeah Dan, I think your painting all women with the same brush here. Some women may be dicks just like some guys are dicks but I'm not just gonna assume that a girl is a dick. If anything I think a more realistic and healthier view is that most women are actually nice and only a few are dicks.
Yeah sounds good, but how do you steer the convo to that? Obviously it needs to seem casual rather that "oh btw I'm not looking for a relationship, just fun. Thought you should know" lol

I chatted to this girl at the library for ages today and could have got her number but in all honesty I'm worried that if I start texting her and ask her for a drink some time then she will assume I fancy her and im looking for something more than sex. I guess maybe the drink is when I should drop the 'no relationship' line. Going to clubs and pulling doesn't have this problem as one night stands are assumed to be the case I think, but day game girls assume its not just sex.

I just leave the possibility of being open to a relationship. Yeah it might leave them thinking it could happen, but that's the beauty of it. Let them off easy without letting them off.

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