So I got a couple dates with a couple different girls as I want to practice on them and see how they all react to some methods...

So my game plan is to take them mini putting and strike a little competition.. get some kino in and build some comfort and rapport... I am going to try and maintain good eye contact when in conversation.. and try a little NEG here and there, just starting out studying PUA... so I will use it when i feel comfortable and it will not come out as offensive...

After we go mini putting I was thinking off going to the bar across the street for a beer.. from there I will try to build more comfort and then attraction.. also maintain good eye contact..

( I always add the good eye contact because before studying PUA I never kept good eye contact)


After a drink or two I am curious what I should do from there?
Take her home ?

Or offer to come back to my place and watch a movie ?

Or am I moving to quick ?

I know usually I should no by the signs shes giving off but how can I word my question of going home with me as a statement? Appreciate the feed back!

P.S A little about myself: 6'0, 195lbs, Gym Mon-fri Athletic but have a baby face not a hairy guy

Please read -> here-vp582665.html#582665
Negs arn't something to get a girls attention - unless your proficient in it you will get the wrong kind, read the link for more.

I'm very interested, who is this idiot telling EVERYONE to neg any girl they ever meet? Please tell me so i can kick his @$$...
thats not for you OR us to decide, it's HER decision how fast your moving. I've met girls that wouldn't let you hug them after a year of knowing them, and i know ones that asked for a hug from me after 2 seconds; just go with the flow/ladder of escalation.
Take the question "want to go to my house?" and remove the question mark; you get "want to go to my house"; now trade ONE word - "let's go to my house" and your done... (add stuff around it though, "lets go to my house" will NOT work)

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

So in what situation would it be okay to use a NEG?

Can you explain the ladder of escalation?

Not really lol - theres verbal ladders, physical ladders, types of closes you do in a ladder - try working on one at a time (i'd go with physical (which is "Kino"), then verbal, then closing)
In my linked post I say when you can use a neg, read it more closely. Especially the last line

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

when she thinks she is better then you, when she is on guard,

and seriously I want to add, that insults are not negs, negs are compliments, if it does not seem like you are giving a compliment, then you suck shit at negging

furthermore negs are not needed at all, and often they do more harm then good unless you have alot of practise with them, if you are taking the whole MM route then you would be better off just stacking dhv's (also not needed) and escalating
chiefs-guide-to-outer-game-vt75887.html

skip down to #2, the compliance ladder, there are tons of different escalation ladders and compliance ladders, you can make your own, you can also escalate in a way that is not linnear just keeping in mind how compliant a girl is towards you, alot of people reccomend the di-carlo escalation ladder (you can google it), but chiefs guide linked above is a pretty simple explanation of how to test compliance