Been speaking to my ex since summer and started seeing her at xmas. I have currently been speaking to her every day for a couple of hours so really are quite close. I am at uni in Liverpool and she is from Brighton though and she said she would come up and see me. She agreed to see me this weekend about 3 weeks ago but changed her mind on friday when i asked her because her dad is celebrating his birthday then but that she definitely would come up. Normally i wouldn't mind but this girl flakes a lot even more when i was in a relationship with her. How can i get her to come up or punish her in any way, is a freeze out ok? I mainly just froze her out and haven't been speaking to her that much since she told me on friday and have just said that i'm not pissed off with her or anything etc. Also this girl is really into me! She wants a relationship with me but i have been holding it off and will continue to do that until she wants to come meet me. She won't get with any one else and wants me to do the same.