Hello everyone,

I'm new to the forum, yet have been practising Game for a few years with possible success. Why do I say possible (afterall I should know if I was successful or not)? Everytime I am using the techniques/lines and they are working well, and I isolate/kino etc. a very very limiting belief kicks in AND I NEED YOUR HELP PLEASE!!!

My background is that I have been taught by my mom/aunts (raised by them, no real men in my life) about the virtues of monogamy and have watched. due to them dominating the TV schedule, numerous romantic movies/TV shows since I was a young child.

Now having said that, every time I am working game and have a girl giving me puuuuure IOI's and they want it to take it to the next level, I always find myself stopping myself and losing inner momentum. What comes to mind are thoughts like "will she be a good girlfriend?" "what are long term prospects?" "will she be a good wife?" etc. So pretty much GROOMED TO THINK LIKE A WOMAN when it comes to sex. (Escalating with kino is much harder when I hit this state)

Because of this I have left girls hanging, moved off of HB9-10's, and have let go of many many missed opportunities.

Needless to say I am a virgin still as I have never been able to fully close as those thoughts are all pervasive.

I want to be polyamourous, and one day find a GF out of dating and sleeping with numerous women...but I still cant shake these years of conditioning.

Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

Many many thanks in advance

wow, i have no real substantial advice for you man, but ill give you the scraps that i can come up with...

if you ask your self "will she make a good girlfriend/wife/partner, whatever" answer With "lets find out if we are physically compatible, then move on to socially and mentally after that."
the only way to know if you are physically compatible is to have sex.

that wont fix your problems, but you basilica have oneits except with out it being restricted to any one person, so after you answer the first question then you could do numerous things to continue on your quest, but the things i am thinking of at the moment i can only forsee causing a lot of harm down the road as to get any benefit out of them you would have to use them routinely, and if they become habit you may become miserable as you wont know when to stop them.

so start there and if you need more advice you know were the alphas hang out

Wow that's actually some good advice, makes sense. I'll definitely work on getting into that frame next time I go out. This will help at least in breaking down my line of thinking into smaller steps rather than playing the whole story in my head.

All bad habits can be unlearned or replaced.

What things are you talking about that may cause harm in the future? Sorry I could not understand that part...

Cheers

My wife and I am polyamorous actually, and here are a few talking points you can make:

1) Love multiplies, not divides. Do you love one child less if you have more than one child? Romantic love is the same way.

2) It's more natural. Half of marriages end in divorce. Of those that don't, many involve infidelity. Of the few remaining that don't, many are already swingers or polyamorous. The remaining true lifetime monogamous couples are in the VAST minority.

3) Monogamy, if practiced how society tells you is the "right way", guarantees that one of you will end up mourning over the other's corpse someday, with a complete lack of any romantic life.

4) The rush and excitement of meeting a new romantic partner, and all of the joy and thrill that goes along with it, is not something I would want to forever deny to someone I love. Nor would I want to be denied it.

...just for starters...

--Aeron

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Stop masturbating. Problem solved.

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