Not sure if this is the right place but I'll put it here anyway.

When leaving my old work a fair few months ago I had a party for leaving, whilst out a girl I thought I'd never get with (6 years older, 8/10 blonde chick) suddenly came onto me and kissed me. She wanted me back to her house but as I had a girlfriend I said no but we continued to chat after that. We'd been flirting for a few weeks before this point but as a flirty person I assumed it was harmless, until she came onto me anyway.

I move away from the area at this point to about an hour and a half away and my girlfriend (unrelated to incident) breaks up with me. I start talking to girl back at my old work, we talk on phone and chat etc, I get back with my girlfriend and stop talking to this girl again. I stay in some contact with this girl but she basically makes it clear I cant lead her on.

So anyway I break up with my girlfriend again, I start talk to this girl again before me and my gf broke up, so she knows I wasn't talking to her because of that. I go and visit my old work party and she's happy to see me etc but at the time she has a boyfriend so isnt keen and basically makes an excuse not to see each other alone.

My issue is now when I text her (shes split up with this guy) I get hostility from her and she often doesnt get back to me.. Now ideally I'd like to fuck her but I have no idea what to say to win her over again.

What should I do to make her keen again? I need a strategy but I'm just all out of ideas and I don't want to just try everything because being in too much contact will make me look desperate.

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Dignity,

She's a lost case. If you ever meet again at a nightsetting you can hit again but otherwise game other women.