so i thought of commenting on this girls photo saying "nice photo." but i look at most of her photos and it has guys complimenting them. ive known her for a while and she knows i don't compliment her much i usually Neg her so that increases the value of my compliment making it stand out from the rest of the guys?

or would i be making myself just like the rest of them and not something "different"
i remember being on tumblr and she liked this guy they ended up not dating and she made this post saying he was "cute funny and different" now how can you appear different to a girl's perspective in your personality traits.

being different makes you stand out. any tips of getting her to notice you more because your not like the rest. any tips on how to be not like the rest and become something "unique".

Hey dude,
i might be a bit harsh here, but why compliment on a photo? Its bullshit. I believe that compliments given over the internet, as in, not personal, dont mean shit. Not to you, and especially not to her. Dont try to be the funny dude and think half a day on a 'witty (ready shitty)' comment on a freaking photo when you can actually compliment her in real life.

If you want to compliment her on real life, make it about something you mean and about something that is truly hers. you know, dont say: nice shoes. Every dingo in the world can buy nice shoes. But suppose her passion is shooting with a rifle and she can hit the bullseye 3 times in a row, now that is something that i would compliment her on.

If she says that she has composed her own classical music piece, that is something i would compliment her on. I dont like that music much, so i would tell her i dont like the music, but i would honestly be amazed if she wrote her own piece. and i would compliment her on that.

What i am trying to say is: compliment a person for who he is. Mean it, and your compliment will make a difference.

cheers!

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Sucker love I always find,
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never give empty compliments. They have to be meaningful and deserved. Unless of course if is your girlfriend.

What is going to make you different in her eyes is "not trying to be different". You see, most guys think the way you do and therefore will try to be different in order to get a girls attention. In order to make yourself different from these guys you have to be yourself or at least being who you want to be. When a girl sees a guy who doesn't try to act different to impress her but rather acts like himself he becomes this "different" guy in her mind and special. Girls don't want to be treated special by guys it's all boloney. Girls want to have guys around them that are not fake. Because if a girl knows a guy is acting real with her she knows she can trust you and comfort is build. Of course this is not enough as you will need seduction after this but these are the first steps to your success. Good luck!

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go read some oneitis threads, common theme from the outside,

there is this one girl hb8+, she totally blows me off and flakes, here is a text log of her not even trying to have a conversation with me, but she is so different, she is so charming, it's not just looks, I can get tons of other girls (this is almost certainly bullshit) but this girl is special

you don't actually have to be all that special, you just have to go for what you want, in the best way you possibly know how to, put all the effort into it that you can, set a timeline that you will abide by, if it doesn't work out, just keep improving yourself (your looks, your finances, your social circle, your lifestyle, your social skills), keep improving always and move onto new girls when shit doesn't work out, there is no one girl, there are several, and once you actually hit up several, you will realize how they look is not as important as how they interact with you, some uglies try to treat you like shit and won't put out acting like their pussy is worth a million dollars, while some hotties think your cute, how a girl looks does not effect how attractive she views you as, it is subjective to the person and what they value, you will find generally if you are actually trying to get the pussy, and actually putting in a good solid effort to turn her on and make shit happen, you can get the pussy within a week, if it takes longer then that, you don't have to stop contacting her, but you certainly should not be focusing on her, you should be out trying to meet new girls to find one that actually wants to play with your penis