So there's this girl from my friendship group that I ended up seeing for a few months, I see her/speak to her all the time literally 24/7. I knew she wasnt over some other guy but was hoping she would get over him. Anyway she suddenly said that she cant see me anymore because she doesnt want me to get hurt. It was just getting to that point where the next stage would have been a relationship and she said she cant do a relationship and so we should stop all together. so that would have been fine except she still calls me up all the time and we hang out all the time and this makes it impossible for me to get over her, and I've told her we cant see each other so much any more and Ive started hanging out with other people from our friendship group, and now she keeps saying that ive replaced her and all this stuff.. Now I still want to see her but cant tell if she likes me or not and i have no idea what kind of game she's playing. What do I do?

Hey =]

With all due respect, you sound pathetic and I'm sure you know this already. I'm starting my reply off like this as a wake-up call.

You speak to her 24/7??

Clearly you're not making yourself scarce enough. Try limiting meeting up to once or twice a week and do not text or call unless it's to arrange a date.

As soon as you started to talk to other people, she noticed you again. That's not a coincidence.

Kiss her, sleep with her soon because you're heading towards friend zone fast.

Good luck. =]

Yo man

I do agree with robinhod in the sense that you contact her to much. Try avoiding acting to needy...

Shes saying that she feels replaced because she deosnt seem important in your life like she use to be. Obviously that is her fault. I had a friend that fdlt the same way, all i did was make her think she was still important but with out acting needy and with out showing to much interest in her.

If she does still like you, make sure that its a bit of a challenge for her to get you back

Hope i helped man, good luck

I see what you guys are saying, but I think you've got the wrong end of the stick... Its her contacting me, not the other way round - which is why I told her to stop ringing me and coming round all the time. Half the time she rings me asking whether I have slept with someone or other or adding girls on facebook that have written on my wall - which to me would suggest she likes me but then if i ask her whether she still likes me she says she doesnt want a relationship. Its a tricky situation because we are in the same friends group - obviously a rookie mistake getting attached to someone you used to be friends with! I think the best route for me is to leave it for now and just get back in the game.

I'm going to tell you want to do,

Have you slept with her yet?

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Yeah I was sleeping with her for months.

which is how i got attached.

If you've already banged her, you got to give it time, they always come back around.

Just ignore her text messages for a little while, and then begin to answer a little cold, she'll bring it up..

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