So this girl I'm going after gives me really tight hugs and squeezes a lot, is that a IOI?


I try to make her comply by following me but she doesn't.

Also, she's been shit testing me by asking me to get her stuff and since we're in front of people I don't want to be a dick for not doing it. I know it kills me worth, how do I deny her while still keeping self worth?

lol.. just say no.

And doing it under that circumstance is a lot worse for you value than doing it when its just her and you alone because, shes making you her personal bitch in front of a group of people.

If you must get her bag, at least play a little game with her before you give it to her... Like once she reaches to get it out of your hand, you pull it away and sort of make her chase it a bit..

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urm... yeah.

Tight hugs mean nothing if she is doing them to everyone, its like in Europe they greet each other with kisses on both cheeks, it means nothing because its a natural hello.

As for her making you comply i've found a simple way around that. When she asks you to buy her a drink you simple say either 'only if I can have one for going' and then wink or 'Hmm... tell you what, you buy the first and i'll definitely do that for you'

If she tries to get you to comply in front of people, and you do then you will kill all your work and you may as well start to work game in another club.

I'd say turn it the other way around next time you see her, get her to comply. You said trying to get her to bounce doesn't work, maybe it's because you haven't given her a reason to... a reason to comply is often 80% of the battle. Say 'lets go over here and talk... I've got a question only you can answer'

Hope i've helped dude...