So ive dated this girl a couple times it seemed to be going really well, we speak on bbm/text and up to a couple of days ago we spoke everyday and we were both really chatty we both kept the conversation going her alot of the time, all of a sudden she isnt as chatty, doesnt really keep the convo going. Earlier on i said to her that "i really enjoy spending time with her" and she said she likes spending time with me aswell when i asked her about hanging out she said yeah definatly next week! so im confused as to why she doesnt seem the same when we text she never used to ever let the conversation die im really confused any help with this situation would be appreciated thanks

Its getting boring and old...

She could of also met a new guy that is holding her interest..

And just a note: If you aren't calling the girl on the phone, the odds are its not going anywhere.. There is no connection with texting..

Also, ask less what wrong with her and more what wrong with you.. Maybe your just not as interesting as you used to be

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ahh this is ennoying i like this girl alot, whats the best way to get her interest back?

Call her

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Easy , just be amazing, and no matter how you feel about a girl keep it fun, if you feel stressed or insecure she is likely to lose interest very quickly, although that was learned through hard experience.

Do you think a good way to try win this situation back would be to halt contact alltogther so its thursday now she said a couple of days ago she wants to do something next week so should i just give her a call on sunday night? the only thing is ive never called her before she may think its weird if i randomly call her?

I think its weird that your thinking about this that deep.. I said call the girl, I can see your scared but from the looks of things I know more about this than you(no offense). So call the girl, it'll be good practice for you either way.

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you are right i probably am thinking about this way to deep, i just really like this girl alot and i really dont want to screw things up with her.

The only time I chat is to hangout. Brief convo but, I am always too busy to talk and if she wants to hangout, then, I just invite her over. If not, then, its pretty much a dead contact. I saw some where a girl said that the rule is 3dates. If by the 3rd date, there has been no sex, it is probably never happening now.

I didn't kiss my the girlfriend before my last for 6 dates.. And thats me being experienced with women prior to her.

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she said to me straight after the 2nd date "we should definately do it again soon" and the other day she said we should definatly meet next week, i dont think she would say this if she didnt mean it because before she cacelled a date and said "if i didnt want to see you again i would say, otherwise it would be childish" so do you think it could be that shes fed up of the constant talking and would rather save it for when we meet? and if i get another chance to hang with her next week im definatly going to try and physically escalate to sex. Do you guys think im over reacting and should just chill and wait to arrange a date next week?

Do what you want dude.. I already told you what to do, the questions should have ended..

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I went on like a million dates with a girl once before we had sex. Despite what a lot of the tough guys (most of which are probably lying) on here will tell you, sex isn't mandatory to start a relationship. I actually know a couple who started dating in 6th grade and ended up getting married and didn't have sex until their wedding night. They're not hardcore Christians or anything; just have their own morals and beliefs. Definitely respectable. Not that I could handle that, personally.

Call her. Set up a date in the next few days. Don't plan a date for a week away... Do it this weekend. Like everyone has said.. Just texting is a killer. You'll know soon enough if she's still into you if you call her.