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Hey,
Here is some background to this girl:
How do I get this girls attention. I can never see her irl really.
I AM friendly now with one of her frieds from our school as well and they go to school together now.
Kinda oneitis, but idc i find that whole thing really stupid cuz if you cantget a girl you want then ur not a good pua imo. Everyone can get girls if they play the numbers game.. Duh youll find some who are interested unless your gross.
And my game isnt bad... Not tight either but i had a pretty smooth convo with a random girlon fb with 1 mutual friend last night using pua techs and it workd beautifully.. so im not completely off but I kinda need to get this other girls attention...
and honestly, she seems liek a nice person so even if i dont pick her up i would like to befriend her. (she also has hot firneds btw lol) but ya.. so i dont wanna do anything sleazy or assholeish..
yo dude.
Ok, many many things wrong here.
first off: your pua theory: yes you can get many girls you want if you are good. Let me phrase that again: if you are good. It isnt pua that is such a numbers game, it is learning the way that is a numbers game. You say your skills arent that bad. You should know then already that practice by the numbers is the best way to learn. And you should also know that real life is the way to go. PUA stuff on facebook is just... its like justin bieber singing, good for kiddies, but adults pass for it.
Its very good for you that things on facebook 'worked beautifully' for you, but if you didnt meet her and kiss her, what good did it do to you? In the end, a facebook conversation proves nothing, not attraction, not anything. But enough on that. Just pointing out, i do not intend to flame you. But your statement does earn me the right to boot your ass, at least this once
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Secondly, you say oneitis. If you cant next, or change your target (she doesnt really seem very interested according to the ignores in your 'pre-pua' phase), then that means you are emotionally too much involved already. Probably already been fantasizing on how it would be etc. Not good. I repeat: not good. Focussing on the goal is a great way to motivate yourself. Just dont immerse in the goal, because your emotions (which you have elicited on yourself by visualizing your goa) will cloud your pua interactions and your pua mind.
you also say that you will not see her in real life. Which is also not good, as it narrows your success rate. You can always send her a message, but i would be direct. I would tell her that you think she seems nice and you want to get to know her.
I think that any other attempt of 'online gaming' or whatever shannanigans they have invented for mainly textual intercourse, but i believe your success rate will go down drastically, as i can imagine that every dweep she is friends with on fb has already done the same. I would go for a bold direct approach, show her you got nuts to play with.
This is my opinion ofc.
cheers, and good luck
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