lets say that the girl is on a pedestal..

sometimes is because she puts herself on it, or others put her on it..

but in this case.. lets say you messed up and put her on the pedestal..

sometimes its a combination of the three..

and this is after you've slept with her..

as in.. maybe you had her on a pedestal but she didn't know it.. or you hid it well enough and gamed her.. got what you wanted, and wanted more.. but then after you slept with her, she figures it out.. say because you let your guard down and lost your strong frame..

I'm being vague about this one on purpose..

how do you get the girl off the damn pedestal and regain some of your ground back?

A girl should be flattered to be put on a pedestal, why do they get so disgusted and bitchy when guys make the cardinal sin of falling in love with them?! Is it illegal to fall in love or something? :S Girls claim to be all about love ffs!

Cut the attention you give to her and start gaming other girls.

You are really starting to become loathsome. Someone really should ban you, you are clearly a troll.

Think of it like this. Girl is on a pedestal IN RELATION TO SOMEONE.

If 100 guys put her on pedestal, and you treat her like any other girl (lower than you or at best at your level), guess what. In your reality she is not on a pedestal, AND SHE KNOWS IT.

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I have to return some videotapes...

But it's a perfectly reasonable question: girls go on and on about wanting love, but then when some poor guy actually loves her, suddenly he's a creep and she runs away - wtf?! She should be grateful someone loves her, I sure would be! I'd love to be put on a pedestal, it must be amazing - who wouldn't want to be worshipped?!