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I wasnt sure where I could put this topic, and since I can't post on the relationship forum, this seemed like the best bet.
Long story short, since age 16 I had a crush on her, now, almost 7 years later, we're both single and we have started dating, she's not my girlfriend yet, but we're seeing each other now in a romantic way. Its been almost 4 weeks ish since we've been seeing each other in this way, we both said we wanted to go slow, I just got out of a relationship and don't want to rush things. We haven't had sex yet.
I don't feel like I'm ready to have a girlfriend yet, so I don't want to ask her. We're slowly building up our relationship, she gives me my place, and she is the one to initiate contact with me sometimes, she calls me and asks me if we can go for an ice cream. So, things are advancing.
Has anyone been in an experience like this before?? I don't feel like I need to game her much, not like I would do to any other girl. But I could still use a few pointers, most likely, if we don't have sex by february 14th, we'll end up doing it that day.
Don't game her, in fact if you did she'd likely tell you're being incongruent unless you've always acted player-like with her. If you like her, which I gather you do, keep doing what you're doing and allow things to unfold organically. Don't listen to Kieran Black, he/she is completely out to lunch.
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