This is super long, sorry, cliffs at end.

First post here guys... first bit of a background... 26 years old, was in 8 year "relationship" that ended in me being left due to religious reasons. 6 months later I'm on the prowl so to speak. I'm no looker but I have a lot of confidence and my humor and confidence makes up for my doughy 5'10" 225 lb. frame. I have the gift of gab and have a natural ability to speak to women and have no fear of rejection I guess.

On Christmas Eve while most are with their family my Jewish ass was out trying to bang bitches...met this hot Colombian chick (CC) and got her number...danced with her real close and got a kiss on the cheek good night around 2:00 am.

Fast forward to Tuesday I text CC and spit my non-game and eventually we make plans for Friday (12/30) night. We hang out and... kiss on the cheek. So at this point I'm ready to dead this girl but we have good chemistry and she is just sexy as hell; plus I am using her to potentially score with her sexy ass friends. I text her Monday and then don't speak to her until Friday (1/6) morning and ask her to hang that night. We hang out and I finally get some tongue action. I being a guy obviously try for more and then I get the whole "I just got out of a 6 1/2 year relationship thing."

Nevertheless, we speak Saturday and hang out in the afternoon (gasp) as she needed some help with some tax stuff (I said I'm Jewish). Again I feel like I just want to bang but I can tell it's not happening any time soon. She finally tells me that she only has sex in a relationship and that at this time in her life she enjoys having me as her "go to guy" just not for a relationship (i.e. not to fuck).

So I do what any chump would do and start upping the text and call frequency. It's not that I would mind a relationship with her at some point but it's just I really want to screw her and this seemed like the only way. She saw right through my bullshit and then she said..."let's just be friends." I told her I had plenty and left it at that.

She text me a couple times the week of the 13th and even called me on Sunday the 15th to have breakfast with her. I didn't respond to any of the texts and did answer the call only because it was early as shit and I didn't look at the number.

She text me once or twice this week to check in and I told her a funny but real short story through text on Thurs the 19th. She knew I was getting a new car on Friday (20th) and called me to ask about it and wanted to come see it. I said I was busy with tax season and couldn't leave the house. So she comes over Fri night and we chill and watch Hangover 2 and gets really sleepy and falls asleep cuddling with me on the couch. I see her off Sat (21st) morning and go about my day. She texts a few time and I dodge them all.

I went out tonight and got home to this huge fucking e-mail from her. I'll spare the details but it basically reiterated what she said earlier about just wanting to be friends and that she didn't want to date anyone at this time. It also said that don't worry she isn't talking to anyone else.

So my new friends, please help me in this situation. I feel like I don't want her totally out of my life but I don't need any female friends. I want to bang her which is why I tried to wife her up; maybe that was a dickish move and G-d punished me for it. Do I just cut her off and on to the next or let her pretend that she is my friend until she is ready to loosen up?


Cliffs: Meet chick Christmas Eve and hit it off; get number and kiss on cheek. Make out and feel up but can't get the booty. Tells me she just wants a friend but comes over late and "cuddles" after then sends an e-mail reiterating that she just wants to be friends. What to do?