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hi guys
sorry about all my stupid questions today. I feel like I am losing it so I have to go back to the basics.
when a girl is walking toward you and you walking toward her on the street, is there a way to get her attention? saying "hi" hasnt worked. I have also tried saying "excus me, do you know where is" usually I get directions and that doesnt lead to anything. I have also tried "excuse me. hi. listen, I'm flattered, but i'm sorry, I cant be your boyfriend" usually they think I am some crazy guy and they get the hell out of there.
(well I cant read their mind so I dont know what they are thinking, but this hasn't worked)
so how do you get someone's attention?
I suggest ditching that boyfriend line. It sounds like it would only work if the girl was stationary and already giving you IOIs.
Walk towards your target, say your opener and make sure your feet are planted. If you think she's beautiful, then tell her.
Example: You see a hottie. You walk towards her, smile at her, say: "Excuse me, you are absolutely beautiful." (plant your feet while you're talking). Introduce yourself and go for the handshake.