| Always go for the close, because sadly, numbers don't mean much.
I've gotten dozens fo numbers, way before I learned anything about pickup. The percentage of women who actually wanted to hang out again was small. It's a party, there's a good vibe, people are having fun, so when you talk to a girl and ask her number she's just in a better state to want to do that sorta thing. She won't be like that, odds are, when you call or text her.
If you like her and you have her number, fuckin call her. Or text her something silly, either way at least she will have your number then. What may be the most important thing about pickup, well 2 most important things, are that you a) never get controlled by social norms (who cares how other people your age act, do what you wanna do), and b) never stop gaming. Even while you call her and try to meet up, perhaps pregaming at your place before another party, you should be out meeting other women.
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