I've always been Mr Playboy and skipping comfort altogether and go for seduction. Obviously girls don't want to go out with someone who they don't feel much connection with. However I know this girl who I've been out with her friends and my friends for about a month. I could tell she liked me, maybe still does but she's being as overt about it as before. When I text her she sends me an essay as a reply so I can tell it#s still there lol

Anyway literally like an hour ago, I asked her to come and grab a drink with me tonight with her friend. I feel if I would have asked her to come alone she would have said no.

So I need a gameplan for tonight...how do I play my cards? Got the girl I wanna get with and her friend who also likes me, she's even said she wants to be fuck buddies but she's about a 5 haha

Her friend that I want is about a 7 or 8 who I may want to pursue a relationship with but at the moment, I'm unsure.

Ok so we go for drinks tonight, what do I do with the ugly friend who wants to fuck me and more importantly her hot friend? My BIGGEST fear is running out of things to say and just sitting there silent. I dread hearing a girl saying that she hasn't enjoyed herself or anything like that. I would say this is my first kinda date I've ever had.

What do i talk about? Where do I sit on a table with these 2 girls and basically how to keep the conversation interesting? I absolutely do not want the girl to home bored, that would kill me. So any of you guys that have been in a similar situation and have done well, i would REALLY appreciate any advice you could give me.

Thanks

Have you ever planned what you were going to say to a girl before calling her and then called her and the conversation was nothing like you expected.. Well this similar.

I actually just went out with two chicks yesterday and completely played the friend role because they both belong to social circles with way hotter chicks. Basically just flirt with both of them and talk about relationships. Women love getting a mans view point on relationships. It helps them understand men better. This is also a great opportunity to learn something, ask them questions you may have about women.

My advice would be to go in with the mentality of just being and friend and having a good time. Flirt with the other girls that are there and be friends with the girls you came with, they'll both probably wanna do you for doing this anyway because they will wonder why you aren't flirting with them as much.

Not every chick has to be fucked bro, its okay to be a girls friend... Plus you kind of already friendzoned yourself by inviting her out with a friend anyway.

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How has that friend zoned me? I'm lost :/

If a girl texted you and said " hey wanna go for drinks, bring your friends" what would you think?

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You put yourself in the friendzone by making it as casual as "Oh hey do you want to go out with me and so&so."
Whenever there are only three people someone is always the third wheel, unless your of course going for a threesome in Amsterdam.

Play the friend card in this situation, despite what a lot of people will tell you on this site it is ALWAYS possible to go from friends to more.
In fact sometimes with less common methods it is even easier.

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Charm both of them. Make sure they both genuinely enjoy your company, and try running a little bit of kino on the one you want. Sit next to her and let your leg touch hers, make some seductive eye contact with her, send her some IOI's that she'll notice but might go over her friend's head.

MAKE SURE BOTH OF THEM LEAVE WITH A GOOD IMPRESSION OF YOU!

But make the one you're after leave with the feeling of a connection between you and her. Basically, you're taking out two girls instead of one. Play it that way.

Be cocky & funny, play some routines, don't throw yourself at the 7 and be obvious about wanting her, in fact, for the first 15 minutes or so try and "ignore" her or be a little more distant towards her while she tries to figure out why she's not the one getting attention from you. Then, do a playful routine on her like a palm read, or the Cube, or the 5 Lies Game. I wouldn't suggest trying to kiss close, especially if her friend wants to get with you, but definitely try and sneak in a number close.

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I already have number, I have arranged this meet up by text.

Guys the only reason I have asked her friend to come is because me and the hotter girl don't really have much comfort but attraction is there. I want her to feel comfortable, with her friend being there, and while i try to build comfort and an emotional connection with her so next time she'll be comfortable enough to come out alone. Mannnn I have a tough night ahead of me...

fuck the 5, after you have succeeded with the easy target go for the 7, make sure you were good in bed with the 5, and don't brag about it, the 5 will pass on how it was to the 7 and most of your work is already done

No I have standards. These 2 are best friends and they both like me, somehow I don't think your method would work. It may just make them 2 fall out and me have none of them.

And what happens when the 5 tells the 7 that she likes him? Orrrr what happens when the 5 tells the 7 he WASN'T good at bed? (No offense just making a hypothetical statement)

Point is, you can easily play this out so you end up with the 5 thinking "Oh, he's such a great guy, charming, funny, etc etc" and the 7 going "Yeah, I agree, I think I want to see him again!"