I got my first full time job 3 months ago. I love everything about my job, it is fucking amazing. However, I'm working like 12 hours a day. During weekends I often work from home.

For the first two and a half months I was partying like crazy. I had money, crazy new room mates to go out with, and getting girls was easy and fun. But nowdays, it has gotten to me. I feel fucking exhausted all the time. Barely have any energy to work out (sometimes), going on dates became hustle, I just wanted to get some sleep...

I feel like I just might snap and getting married to next girl I meet, or if I get back with this girl, I feel this is gonna happen.

I wonder if you have a high demanding job, how it has changed your life when it comes to gaming and girls in general?

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Hi mate,

up until recently, i had two jobs. I do have a girlfriend, which is an important detail. I can tell you, it is exhausting. I did pickup/seduction at work, just because i cant just stop with it. But, also due to the fact that i have a girlfriend, the way i do it has completely changed. While i used to be direct (i am still quite direct, but i just cant walk up to any woman anymore and tell her how much she turns me on. People would talk). Going out was out of the blue, no more energy, and also, i better spend the little time i had with my girl. Although i loved my second job (salesman), i did give it up. I forgot how to live and that is what i am doing now.

So in other words, it is normal. Also, it is your first full time job. You will get used to it and the new rythm. But dont overwork amigo. you work to live, and not live to work. A little hint though: try planning your nights out. you can get a good night sleep in the nights before or after .

cheers

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Hi LD,

Thanks for your response.

Tell me this. How do you handle your gf? Do you cheat on her? Do you game other girls? Does she know about that?

Since I'm rarely in a relationship, and when I do have ltr, she knows that i'm not going to invest that much. and that works fine when i'm in the peak state. but nowdays, i feel i just wanna have someone home when i come back. and since this thinking is so new and strange for me, every time i have a chance to make it happen i choose to behave like prick I normally am.

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I know exactly what you mean! I am also overworked and feel like everything is a chore or another weight added to my already too heavy burden.

If you can handle it, get stronger and fight, if you cant, change your lifestyle or job. You health is not worth the extra money your current job may give you.

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