Hi guys!

this is my first official post so hopefully you can help me out!

Long story short...girl at work is a HB9 and since flirting with her, the group of all females that she works with knew about it within minutes, so I would see she is quite intrigued (tied with the body language she emitted when i was flirting with her - i.e pushing chest out eyes dilated angled stare and shyness).

The question is.. there is a queen bee, a mother if you will, who completely crucified me this morning in front of HB... she said things like 'oh stop hitting on my poor HB, do you dream about her' etc.

HB stuck up for me, but i have to find a way to disarm QB... any tips guys?

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become better at socializing, if you can't handle shit being thrown at you without non chlantly brushing it off, then you need to be more secure and confident in yourself, words are just words, maybe for 2 weeks you should just try agreeing with her and continueing what you were doing while ignoring her just for a little social experiement,

cockblock:oh stop hitting on my poor hb, do you dream about her

you:every night, but the dreams are too dirty for you, now behave yourself while I flirt with your cute friend, we are having a baby soon and you are not invited

Hey pumpington.. thanks for the quick reply. I could have handled it better i know but as she said it i didnt go shy. I just turned my focus on QB and said 'no i dream about you more.. you will always have a place in my heart QB etc.

Ill work on my socializing and charisma a bit more and just let the rumor mill from the chick factory downstairs grow a bit more for the next few days..

All in the experience right

Jax -x-

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You will always have a place in my heart?

FUCK THAT.

Cheesy romantic lines = bad. Playful/sexual lines = good.

When making reference to something cheesy while applying sarcasm makes it playful.
And it definitely sounded to me the way he worded it that he would have used a sarcastic tone.
I can't think of any other way to hear what he said besides in said tone.

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Bomb the fat bitch's car!

If you "disarm" her you will create and enemy which will hurt you in the long run..

What you want to do is smile and pay her a compliment...

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i applied the cheesey line with a kino and a sarcastic comment..

as im new to this I think im going to lay all my attention on the queen bee. Not only will it leave the HB a bit high and dry but will put her defenses down. I mean i could have dropped her right away by saying that she is only saying that because she feels she is losing the attention of all the guys in the workplace and puts up the wall out of jealousy.. Any problem you have with someone is simply a problem with yourself right?

And in terms of body language the HB fixed her eye contact on me for kind of a reply..

I think i need field training to the N'th degree!...

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Co-founder of Project Essex. If your Essex based and want a strong Sarging group behind drop a message to us.

Oh, and game other girls, always.