I am always bombarded with these 'shit tests'. Some of the time I pass them unconciously but other times I fail. I would like to know how it would be possible to be more aware of the shit test and what are some ways to disarm. Thanks

most women have their own shit tests to weed out men they don't want or think they don't want. The best advice I can give you is to learn to recognize a shit test. Then when in a shit test ask yourself how the average male would respond. Then, either be yourself, or, do whatever the average man would not do.

Appear unaffected and/or ignore it

change the subject and neg her.

This might not be a good example, but this happened to me recently.

I was spotting someone at the gym, after he got done with the set he started crying. SOMEONE is on steroids!
Are you sure it wasn't you!?!?
Oh please. I only cry after sex, and when they're beautiful sky.. like rightn ow. Oh god I'm tearing up.
hahah hoow gaaayyy =]]]
Shut up Mario, that's a stupid name *Nickname I gave her*
=[[
It's okay, I'm willing to work past that it
cause you're gay, right?!!!
Oh man, you're dead to me.
NOOO hahaha, Okay you win!

How to recognize a "shit test":
You will recognize a shit test when a woman says something and you notice yourself getting really emotional (like angry, surprised, uneasy) and you feel a need to argue about what they said at a rational level.
So stop yourself from doing this. And keep your composure and your cool. Be unaffected.
How to win:
The point is. You want to be unaffected at an emotional level so you look more natural rather than pretending. The way to do this is to Shift the Frame immediately. Read about Frame shifting if you don't know what I'm talking about. The basic idea change the focus of the topic or move on to a new topic. An example structure would be, "I don't believe you really think that ........... I/you see that ............ so you are really trying to ..............."

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What he said

The way I recognize them is:

Imagine if she said it to a regular guy. If he responds by trying to change her view, get's all upset because he thinks she's mean or just tries to validate himself based on what she has said, it's a shit test.

They can be as simple "That shirt makes you look gay". She's testing to see if you will get offended by that, if you will try and suck up to her to change her view of you and your shirt, or if you're confident enough to rebut.

Shit tests are easy to get around. Basically, I can sum it up as just be a smart ass to her. Give her nothing to play with. Show her that you like the shirt, and you don't care if she thinks it looks gay. Shows that you are confident in yourself and aren't intimidated by her.

You could rebut the accusing her of hitting on you.

E.g.

HB: "That shirt makes you look so gay."
YOU: "That's totally the best pickup line I've heard all night!"

or

HB: "Buy me a drink."
YOU: "I see what you're doing now. Sly, but it'll take more flirting to win me over."

What I've learnt is that if you assume she want's you, she will end up wanting you. It's great!

Adopt the personality of the smooth, ladies man and assume that they're all hitting you on, whilst being playful. Has turned my game around.

Take it as you will.

At one point I treated everything like a shit test and it worked really well.

Shit tests can be so broad that they can pretty much be anything. Some examples.

Her:"Did I say you could talk to me?"
Me:"I was talking to your friend"

Her:"You want to bang me don't you?"
Me:"No, I barely know you."

Her:"Wanna buy me a drink"
Me:"Not really"

Her"I know you want to take me home"
Me:"I don't bang drunk girls"
(if she says she isn't drunk defensively you are in lol)

Her:"Did your mother buy that shirt for you?"
Me:"Yes isn't she amazing. Her and I are very close"
or
Me"No my ex/gf did"

Her:"You should cut your hair"
Me:"No"
(actually no is a good answer to alot of shit tests that are seeking your compliance. giving a reason shows you need to justify your actions. A simple "no" shows you are accustomed to people not questioning your requests.)

Pretty much any compliance test, neg, qualifying that she does to you is in a sense a shit test. She is testing if you are man enough to lead the interaction or can she easily steal the show from you.

Sometimes they will tease you, jokingly. It's ok to laugh at yourself. You should be able to take a joke. Teasing her with a quick comeback though will earn you killer points.

I know women that shit test constantly, especially the ones that were popular in high school. It NEVER ends with them. lol

Yeah, thats about it. A simple "no" has a much bigger effect than No, because bla bla bla. That way you will seem to be trying to validate yourself to her. Do not do it. One of the biggest points in PUA is to get the girl to qualify herself to you.

Just a tip, when you say the "no", maintain strong eye contact.
MAJOR killer points. If you this right, you're in.
If she is an Hb8 or higher neg the f out of here lol It will do wonders for you.
Some PUA say that a man should neer buy a women anything. If you do, is a DLV. Going around buying girls drink sure does not help the wallet and in 95% of time will get you nowhere.