| Today, I have had a rendez-vous with a very charming woman.
She is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen and met in my life.
She is the girl of my dreams. The one I've been expecting.
I don't want to give any number to this woman; that would be disrespectful and probably way under what she represents to me.
Today, I have met her in a quiet wine bar where she was waiting for me with a friend.
This friend was absolutely beautiful, extremely classy and single.
Yes, the most difficult set you could imagine.
I have been confident and aware of everything.
I knew how to dress in a non-flashy way. Everything casual, only one artifact and two drops of cologne.
I knew how to make her come to the rendez-vous and choose the place.
I knew how to open the conversation and make them laugh.
I knew how to gain the respect of the other men around (bartenders).
I knew how to neg her in a very stylish way.
I knew her friend was only a trap to trick me.
I knew how to kino-escalate in synchronization.
I knew how to control my body language and change it accordingly.
I knew how to let them pay the bill when we were leaving.
I knew how to not act impressed by her friend's limousine.
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When I walked her to her car, she proposed to take me to her home.
I said : "No, I am not interested", with the deadliest smile you can imagine.
She kissed me right away, she couldn't stand it anymore.
Passion, that's what it was.
She gave me a ride, we continued kissing and having a conversation.
I knew she was building walls between her and me.
And I had fucking explosives.
I came back home, and I cried. Like a baby.
This was the girl of my dreams, and I made her want me like no one else before.
What happened to me ?
I just want to say a simple thing : Thank you.
This community helped me so much, in so many ways.
Now I want to give a very simple advice to everybody reading these lines right now.
Seduction is not about tricks, not about lines, not about sequences.
It's about paying attention to the others, being extremely aware of what people feel.
If I had to speak with my old me before I got into this knowledge, it would be this:
Listen. Shut up. Nobody cares about you. You're not different. You're not exceptional.
You're probably like every body else around, more or less.
Be humble, listen before you speak and learn from the others.
Every meaningful thing I have ever understood in my life was always taught by someone else.
Pay attention, and love the Human. It is so beautiful.
Thanks,
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