I'm gonna cut to the chase , I'm 19 , been practicing for a year and am a god amongst my friends cause of the success I have . Sounds good right ?

Well no. Lately I just...... I doth know , feel empty ?

Maybe it's cause I'm unfulfilled in other ways but all I know is that recently I feel unhappy.

I think it's cause the girl I want ( incidentally my ex who recentl said she loved me but due to past experiences , not including me im always a gentleman and smooth lol , has commitment issues) doesn't want t make a go of it .

On a side note is there never a point in a pua life where hhe has the skills to do simply what he wants ? I mean if I. Want to text a girl surely I should be able to do that irrespective of the consequence and still get a positive outcome ? I've experienced this a few times and it's a great feeling .

But allas I digress . As some of you may have been able to tell I'm a tad drunk Always good on a tuesday lol.

I don't know maybe I should just be a player ? Everyone expects that of me . Maybe it's time for me to just accept the fact that this is who I am .

I love women

I want to make them happy , even if it comes at my expense. I know I'm worth the best out there cause I'm an insanely good guy . Maybe nit financially of educationally but I'm a very good person

I need some guidance I guess.

Sorry for my ramblings , thank you for any responses and moderators ....... I leave this post in your vey capable hands .

You've all made me the man I am today .

Get busy living or get busy dying - some smart dude in shawshank redemption

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Seize the day

I'm in the same sort of situation as you, but I look at it differently. I'm still hung up on this girl that has commitment issues. I can get most other girls I want but not this one and it plays with my mind. Sometimes I'm with a girl and just going through the motions, I don't have any real great interest in her. Still, I think about this other girl, it just takes time to get over, and meanwhile I keep myself distracted looking for new and better girls.

No man is island.

Some guys try to be that.

Its normal you are young you have much to learn, about life.

I think you miss a relantioship with a girl, that gave you want you wanted.

Some men want sex other will want something more...

Perhaps you miss someone to talk about the day and be there for you when you need to show some weakness.

Young much to live. Some girls will have a more impact others wont. The ones that leave marks, may take a while to dissapear from your life, but time heals everthing.

God people after reading this will call me Afc.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

You know, getting some guidance is never a bad thing. In fact, it's rather wise. Just like the Snake Doctor said, "No man is an island."

Personally, as a 23 year old, I still need guidance for certain things in life. I have 2 older men that I greatly respect who are sharp and wise and if I ever have a problem, I go to them.

And when I mean any problem, I mean any.

Any.

And is that a bad thing? No!

Foolish is the unlearned who goes on unlearning.

I think everyone has "the one that got away." It's part of the mortal experience and something we are given to learn to deal with. What it also does is give you a glimpse into what you are ultimately aiming for with PU. And sometimes the timing isn't right. It may sound AFC, but if things are meant to be, they'll present themselves again more favorably.

Until then, though, it is important to keep moving and involve yourself in activities that will give you lasting fulfillment--that just helps keep things in perspective and stave off depression and self-pity.

"Never give up. Never surrender." - Cpt. Jason Quincy Taggart, "Galaxy Quest"

Err, very simple: Just go out, use your mysterious magic (I have absolutely no idea how you do this but good for you that you've cracked the code) to get a hot girl in bed, and then *shock horror* just stay with her - bingo! Relationship begun. Then just keep fucking her, but don't dump her. Yes, don't dump her - that way the relationship doesn't end.

If you think that's hard, just imagine the alternative - being unable to have a relationship (or even a kiss) because you're not good-looking/tall/smooth-talking/XYZ enough for girls to even look at you. Then realise how good you have it and how bloody lucky you are to get any hot girls wanting you.

It all comes good in the end and if things aren't good, it's not the end!!!!! Be happy mate.

Yeah man, i get what you are saying. Just give yourself some time, things will eventually fall into place.

Join the club.
And what would be wrong with that. Dont be a player because everyone expects that of you. Dont be not a player because society expects that of you. That is why i hate from the most. Society telling me not to seduce/hunt/fuck other women when you are in a realationship. I hate the fact altough i know better, i am compelled to just do what is common. That i am just another sheep in the pack, another brick in the wall.

Accept that you are who you are, for real. dont accept that you are what others want you to be. Because that just fucks you up. Be who you want to be. Unfortunatly i dont have to balls to completely live up to my own advice. But be who you want to be.
dont we all?
Those are wise words, you gave me a new insight .

ciao

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you