Ok..so this girl ive known for a year and a half and used to have sex with, and ive been friendzoned for about a year...

There's been loads of ups and downs..but last couple of weeks weve hung out more and started kissing again..Last week i though fuck it! New year new start im telling her how i feel (again) all or nothing..

So i told her, she started crying and hugging and kissing me..so i thought great!!
anyway next day i said can we chat for 5 later (so i could see whats happening) and basically she flagged me off, then friday she said she needs to speak to me about something..she said on sunday.. so i said "ok im nevous as u actually want to tell me something for a change")

So come sunday..shes on fbook and i say hey, "she said call me in a bit" but i had lost her number as my phone broke..anyway after about 4 hours i thought she may have called or txt me..But i went back on fbook to find it saying shes in a relationship with someone and loads of pics with her and this guy coming up!!!!

I can't believe it!! After a year and a half she hasnt even told me first before plastering it all over fbook!! so i sat online and she was, and she didnt say a word..so i deleted her and deleted everything of her..

Heres the thing..Do i message her (as im so angry she has no respect for me) or do i leave it now and walk away and thats it?? I cant believe she hasnt said anything to me!!!

I thought i may send a fbook msg saying "I thought u were better than that"????

cheers guys

To add..I new this girl was selfish..But what a bitch!! to do that to me after knowing me for ages and weve done so much together!!! I guess shes a coward..to leave me waiting for 6 days to see that in front of my face!!!

i'd walk away, if you react to it then it makes you out to be needy and your chances are lost forever. if you leave her to think and don't even acknowledge her in the slightest and make it look like you've got on with your life she will hate it. she will obviously still think of you if you guys were close and the fact you're acting like nothing happened will get to her a lot more than a facebook mail..

i've had a situation like this before and needless to say i mailed her and then came out to look as the bad and desperate one.

Love that..Cheers dude, I Literally had the keeboard in my hand earlier to send her something..Happy I didn't!! I won't give her the satisfaction..It's mental tho considering we were kissing in the week and now were hear..ahhh fucking women!!! I hope she fucks it up with this other guy!!

Definitely do not send her a rage msg. Mannix is right, you would only come off as needy. And you did wrong by deleting her, you should just ignored her. Women react a lot more to being ignored than to being offended by some guy she doesnt really care ( sorry for the honesty here man, but what she did clearly says the you were not that important to her, perhaps only a passtime). Go out, and meet someone better, be happy and THAT is going to send a very strong message.

Yep your right dude..I suppose it just took something really bad to realise it..not even a friend would do that..A year and a half and no respect for me!! Fuck her!! Yeah i would have kept her on fbook..but pictures of her and this guy kept coming up!! and it would have killed me!! and deleting her is the only way for me to get over the oneitis!!

Your right tho..i obviously wasnt that important to her!! Selfish bitch!!!

lol

Thats women for you bro, but the biggest mistake you are making is blaming her instead of yourself...

This is you're fault, you could of took charge of the situation before all of this went down, you could of done more to ensure that she belonged to you instead of something other guy.. Instead of pointing the finger at her and calling her a bitch why don't you look for why you failed with this chick.

When you take a test in school is it the tests fault that you didn't pass it?

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lol Fuze always trying to make as think.

I think both are to be blamed. She for being a bitch lol and you for not taking charge. Both have responsibility.

Btw. IMO you dodged a bullet.

Cheers guys..

Yeah i know i fucked up a lot down the road and i accepted that a long time ago!! I guess its all a learning curve eh..

This is like the 6th time i've deleted her lol..but this time it has to be for good! I think i just wanted to fuck her again, but it was impossible in my situation..Like i say i fucked it in a lot of ways, but i used to see/talk to this girl 3 times a week. and she bottled/ let me know how she did..i think that's pretty low!!..and why would i want to be with someone like that anyway?..