So this girl comes out of nowhere and messages+adds me on facebook saying my pictures are awesome. We have a decent conversation after, I get the number and I'm all sexual and whatnot. 2 days later she gets into a relationship with a guy over facebook, 5 days later she changes her status to married. So I figure I'd call her last night, I set up a meet for Friday at the mall.

Her: You think you can just meet me so easily after getting my number??
Me: M-m (shrug), I just thought we could innocently meet up.
Her: What makes you want to meet me?
Me: I just wanna do some innocent things with you.
Her: Hmm, like what!?
Me: It's a surprise.
Her: Aw I wanna know now.
Me: You'll see on Friday. I got to go take a shower. Bye.

Then later I get on facebook.

Me: cute voice.
Her: betterbring ur A game hah thanks.
Me: nah, i dont believe in game. i guess you're a bigger player than me :/ (she did say at one point she's a player.)
Her: the game is fun. can you blame me?
Me: idk, girls that dont play games are usually more genuine (qualifier)
Her: i guess you'll have to judge for yourself (refuses to qualify)
Me: I don't judge haha (think I messed up here)

after some more talk, I say this:

Me: we'll go to Victoria's Secret.
Her: lol running low on panties for the winter? (baiting me to break rapport, perfect time for a witty comeback. wrong.)
Me: there's just a cool pair and i was wondering what it'd look like on a girl. (not taking the bait, staying on the same team)
Her: lol shut up, Chris. that's funny
Me: why i wont look, i promise
Her: mhmm, of course.

Overall impression? Girl is very horny but has a cocky personality. Guess I'll have to be humble to put this little slut down. She's one of those girls who knows she's hot. She has a dominant personality, I see a lot of queer guy friends sucking up to her. Some guy posted on her wall literally that he wants to be her "bff, just like one of her gay sassy friends"

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Hey goofball, the forum reads "General Questions", so unless you have a question post this in its rightful forum.

Hey goofball, what do you think of the interaction? I've been thinking that there's a frame battle going on here, there's something about her.

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Maybe it's her husband behind the screen who will slamdunk you friday at the mall?

Could be bro.

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There is a bit of a frame battle going on but that's what I call flirting. Just keep a strong frame, meet up, and eventually she will drop her act and your in. Keep up the good work.

omg when is this she's-trying-to-get-me-to-break-rapport-but-im-not-gonna-fall-for-it phase gonna be over? talk about overthinking things. geez.

like if you had said "come on now, you know you wanna see how i look in a pink lace thong" she woulda been like "sorry buddy its over. i dont wanna talk to a funny guy whos all about witty comebacks. i want someone who stays on the same team as me"

seriously tho, i guess i dont get this stuff.

Though the banter is cool, fun, witty & wutever you are still bantering on her level. You haven't made it clear to her who this big boss man is in the interaction. You guys are both on the same level fighting for that spot, meaning she isn't clear on wether she should sleep with you or not..

I know you can turn this around when you finally meet up with her though.. Do it up bro

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Yeah I understand the meeting up with her part but how would I have gone on to show I'm the big boss verbally without meeting her? I just want to have that knowledge when talking to other girls.

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Though some may disagree, i mean approaching the situation from a point of knowing she's inferior.. Similar to the way you would address a little child. You wouldn't banter back in forth with a child the way you did with her unless it was simply for your own entertainment... She's your little toy and your going to show her a good time..

If you want a better explanation let me know.

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Hey Fuze, can you explain it further?

Basically, ALL men have a natrual authority over ALL women. Many just aren't aware of this so they behave in a way that give a women authority over them. This is the reason men have always been the dominating/superior force on this planet since the beginning of civilization. Now when you learn to treat a women with love and respect while understanding that she is "less" you will have conquered attraction. Many people this day in age believe in 50-50 relationships. How is that possible when since the beginning of times things were never 50-50. All of a sudden we have this 50-50 theory and the divorce rate is sky rocketing at around 65% in the US. But no one can say such a thing because its just morally "wrong". Ever heard the statement " Treat a women like a hoe and she'll act like one"? well just treat her like a cute little girl thats naive and oblivious and she'll behave like it.

Even the bible says " Control you women or she will control you" - Thats God, fuck what I say. Listen to God

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Man, that was serious good stuff. Thanks for the reply. I always try to tease girls telling them how feminist they are, and most of them are embarassed by it. And that quote from the bible was a masterpiece. very nice.

I'll take a +1 lol

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