So i met this girl in college around 1 month ago and have been seeing her ever since while we were both on break. Now she has told me that she likes me, but isn't ready for a relationship yet. She has previously been with 2 other guys but both of them ended up cheating on her so she says she has trust issues. Now the most confusing part about this is she tells me that we cant show that we like each other at school. She says that he has a lot of family members that go to the college and her mom told her she cant be with another guy or else she wouldnt allow her to see him because she failed many classes last semester due to her previous relationship consuming a lot of her time.

On a side note she has been to my house twice and ive madeout with her on several occassions and also got hand.

Now my questions are is she legitimately not wanting to "show it" at school because she likes me and doesnt want to stop seeing me? And in which ways can i escalate at school if we are not allowed to "show it".

Thanks