I've been doing alot of self-improvement lately, my experience with women has improved so greatly since I've started this phase. I haven't k-closed yet, but I'm able to make just about any woman laugh. What's even better is that I know what my bottle neck is.

Storytelling. I've got very little stories to tell out of the blue. Sure, if something comes up, and is relevant I can maybe remember, but even then.. they're not so great. Can I borrow a story from someone? Thanks.

So, I have this friend on facebook, her brother and I used to be friends, but this was a very long time ago. Well she has this friend on her profile that caught my eye.. how do I game a girl this way? I was thinking just messaging her, and going for it that way.. but what do you guys recommend?


thaaanks

I think you need to cut back the storytelling. You haven't even kissed a girl, which means you are doing something wrong. You are not there to entertain women, you are there to stick your dick in 'em.

Hey dude.

Great work on your progress! keep it up. Keep trying, keep going out. On the storytelling: that is all good and well, but like DJ_Z is saying, you arent there to just entertain them. Dont forget that you need to find the guts somewhere to escalate. I have a feeling that your true bottleneck isnt really the storytelling. Its finding the guts to go beyond that. You hope that by showing value, she will eventually give you a signal that tells you it is ok to go for the kiss.

But realize this mate, the signal might be as bluntly as her telling you: please kiss me, and you will still overthink it. In your mind you will still ask this question: is it really ok? No matter what the signal, you will miss it. So stop looking for it.

If it feels good for you, escalate. You should realize that if she is still standing there with you, she is waiting for something exciting to happen. She is not waiting for another joke nor another story. She wants to be taken away on a flow of thrills. And you need to give her that. Think in ways of: how can i make this exciting for her?

As for the girl on facebook: I hate text game. I dont even consider it 'gaming'. I would try to find a way to meet her in real life. If i wouldnt find a way, i would go for the all or nothing: just message her, tell her what you think and that you want to get to know her better so you want to meet up somewhere for some fun and laughter or whatever. Ofcourse, that is just me. If you want to try and 'show your higher value' by text game, be my guest.

hope we helped out at least a bit,

cheers!

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