Agreed with SnakeDocter. Rapport is key in establishing some
comfort in the interaction, sounds also like your getting
some resistance cause of this...
This I don't agree with
Quote:
me: look i would like to meet you again can I get your number maybe we can catch up for a drink?
her: sure
I would have said "Look, I've got to run cause I'm meeting some friends soon,
but you seem real friendly and fun, what would be the best way to keep
in touch?"
By telling her that you have somewhere else to be you're conveying
to her that you have other interests and your a busy guy.
Also, by indirectly not asking
for her number she can give you a variety of options in order
to get her details without coming off as trying to pick her
up in the conventional manner like "yo give me your
number and lets hook up", you know how many
times she's probably heard that? This is
different to her and it comes under
the radar because she won't see
it as a pickup, but as more as
a networking...
As for the text, why 30 minutes after meeting her? You
should have done it immediately before you left, like
this "Cool, I'll just send you a text after I bounce
from here then we can organise something
later in the week..."
She will now be expecting to hear from you
straight after the interaction, which will build
up some curiosity but still keep the small
spark in the mood, the last thing you
want is for things to seem a little
awkward after a successful
pickup and have her giving
you some resistance as
yo what you can see
here...
CHAT
