So me and this girl were seeing eachother but we decided to cool it off. Fairly mutual understanding, although i think i was more into it than she was.

We're still friends and enjoy hanging out together the only problem is we have a few friends that we both like to spend time with and we bump into eachother at parties. This isn't necessarily a bad thing cos we joke and talk, but she seems more distant and less sociable with me when there's a lot of us around. She also felt very uncomfortable when we were talking together and people would come up and leave us alone because they thought we were hooking up again.

Is this sexual tension? I like her, but i don't have a huge desire to get back with her, and she's not that interested too. How can we stay friends?

Loose attraction but keep the rapport.

How would an AFC do it? No body contact during the "Dates" keep your body distance uptight and dont escalate.