Just as the topic says, how do you bring up sex and give it a sexual vibe when talking to a girl you wanna fuck ? I mean, one minute you're talking about favorite movies then what, do you just ask her bluntly what her favorite position is ? How do you transition ?

Also, in one of his videos Mystery was saying that when talking sex with a woman your goal isn't to make her horny and to be very casual about it( this to me seems like something that would friendzone you, like BFF talk). Which contravenes with my instinct of making her wet, horny and lustful of me. So what's your opinion on this ?