Hey guys! I've been browsing/reading the material on this site for a while now but only recently have i created an account. I posted this on the college tips thread, but I figured I'd create a thread for it as I feel others may have this same problem as well.

I have an interesting situation. I'm entering my second semester of my third year of college, and I am just coming out of a long term relationship (1.5 years). You see, I was a pure AFC with girls all through high school - i never even kissed a girl until college. even freshman year, i was still relatively AFC (though i still got a several k-closes and even a few f-closes). the summer between freshman & sophomore years, i discovered the PUA community and started doing basic research, which led me to successfully gaming a sexy, sweet HB8.5 during welcome week sophomore year. but we started dating, and have been so until now (we just recently broke up, i needed my space). now im getting back into the PUA world.

Heres my main issue. I am a member of the top fraternity on campus (though my school isnt a huge greek life school like some schools are, only like 7% of students are greek). while it is great (i have access to tons of sick parties with lots and lots of hot girls), i feel a slight disconnect with most of my brothers, since most of them are good looking athletic studs who have lots and lots of game (i am average looking and a bit chubby, though i am 6'1). add to that the fact that ive been wifed up for the past year and a half, and since my girlfriend was very possessive i didnt have much room to become close to my brothers (the main reason why i broke up with her). therefore, i feel a severe inferiority complex whenever i go out with them - i always feel like any girls we meet are always only after them since they are better looking & more athletic than me. most of my successes in college have come from outside my social circle (girls outside the greek system) in which i wasnt competing with my frat brothers, and my frat association served as a major DHV.

So heres my major question: how do you successfully game when you are surrounded by other alphas? I am going to be living in the house next semester so I'm going to have exclusive access to the best pregames/parties on our campus. i want to be able to score with some of the hotties that come to these things, but i need to overcome this pressing obstacle.

use the prestige of your fraternity to work for you, not against you.

Isolate girls from amoging frat bro's so you don't end up as lower value. Make sure those bros you do hang out with when you pick up don't alpha you. Stand up for yourself in a group of your bro's. Try to be of at least equal social value when picking up on chicks with your frat bro's. If there are a couple that are going to DHV out of your ass, then avoid them.