Hi I am fairly new to the game, I've read The Game and some of Carlos Xuma's books ( Excellent btw ) and I need some advice on how to game this girl in my class. Well here's how the conversation went.

(She actually opened me )

HB9: Weird desks ( as she sat down right next to me )
Me: Yep hey did you do the homework?
HB9: Yes I was scrambling to get it done
Me: Same here too bad she's not going to collect them
HB9: No way!!!
Me: I know right ( Then I kind of looked away )
HB9: ( She reinitiated ) What's your name?
Me: I'm Miguel and you?
Hb9: Marissa
Me: Nice to meet you ( Shook her hand, I should've been like oh man!! you are the 4th girl named Marissa I have met at college)
HB9: Well you are my 2nd friend I've met What are you majoring in?
Me: CMT what about you?
HB9: Dancing but I've change it to communication I take 2 classes currently bla bla bla bla bla.
Me: Cool ( Here I should've asked what kind of dance she do )
HB9: I want to sit over there on your right so I can talk to you and my friend ( Which is a also a girl but she ended up not talking to her anyways because there was another person in between them. )

Class started now everybody went silent

Whenever the teacher says something funny laugh I notice her laughing and kind of glares at my direction to check if I'm laughing too.

I don't know, I need some advice on day two. I've heard people telling me to take it slow since i'll see her for a long time but I don't know.

Any advice on day 2? Any non-lame questioning besides hey how was your weekend etc etc. and some DHV's would be appreciated thanks

Oh btw do you guys think that she might be interested in me or should I probably just move on ?

Thanks!

Couple general tips:

1. Don't analyze conversations, it'll only drive you nuts.

2. Game other girls. You should always be out gaming, meeting new people, new women, because that's how you stay relaxed with any one chick.

3. Taking your time sucks. Stretching things out only increases the odds you end up in the friendzone.

4. Assume interest. It's a lot easier to assume all women want to meet you and find out otherwise than the reverse.

5. DHVs suck, in my opinion. Some will disagree, but I think focusing on value just means you assume the girl is better than you, so you need to build up some sorta value to convince her you are socially acceptable to sleep with

Now as to this girl specifically. Next time you're leaving class just invite her to do something. Grab lunch, dinner, coffee, bowling, go to a party, whatever, dude. Just say something like "Hey, I'm doing (insert activity here) at (insert time and place) here, you wanna join in?" I dunno, make it sound more like yourself. As for what sort of questions to ask, Chief makes a great point in his "guide to outer game" which is stickied in the PUA Lounge.

Basically, Chief suggests you write down some personality traits that you want in a woman, and while talking to her you wanna screen to find out. For instance, I like a girl that likes to party and go wild sometimes, so if I'm at a bar I may ask her what kind of shot I should do next. If she says she doesn't drink, that's not good, haha. But if she answers with a drink I can say "oh, that just sounds like trouble, what's the worst that could happen if I drink one of those?" My goal being to find out how she parties it up.

Only reading I will suggest is a free one, Vin DiCarlo's escalation ladder. Because its physicality that'll keep you out the friendzone, not value, not conversation, physical contact.

If you take it slow you'll be watching another guy pick her up from that class real soon.. Always plow away and move at top speed.

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Thanks for the reply guys, Yea you're absolutely right DJ, I tend to over-analyze conversations and it drives me nuts! haha but yea I'll invite her for coffee after class since it finishes at night. I'll just go for it

Great advice so far. Yeah, next time just know when you talk away and when you shut up. Being able to babble on a little makes for great comfort. Staying quiet, and allowing awkwardness to build makes good sexuality. You'll need a balance of the two.

And you already took my other advice. Just go for it. Never waste time showing interest.