The other alpha male is a bit better looking than me and has a better physique as well. We both go to the same college and we are 'acquaintances'. One time, we are both at the same club, and I have this girl on my lap, and this guy comes up to her and laughs because she is sitting on my lap like it's some kind of embarrassing thing to be seen with me. Fortunately, I have gamed the chick days before the club and she stayed with me. The guy is completely arrogant and knows he is a good looking guy and I respect that. I was wondering if there were tools to deflect this alpha male next time and makes situations like that occur less.

An Arrogant Alpha Male = Bully
Bullies = Huge Ego

Next time if he laughs at you, just point to his 'tool' and then make a gesture with you index and thumb indicating its small - and whisper to the girl something like 'thts what she said' - do this all in a fun way.

If he says something in a big group just smile and say ' Thats cute, you talk like a jealous teenage girl, are you going through your periods! '

At no point should you try to explain anything to the girl - that would just show you being affected.

Let us know how things go -

Just ignore what you assume/think about him and get in touch with love. If I were you that one night with the girl on my lap and that guy came along, I'd be like, "Yo, what's up bro. This is Lisa." Then I'd even get up and leave her with him saying, "Ya'll have fun talking." While putting my arms around both of them and then I'd go open up some random girls nearby.

Ultimate frame: I am such a pimp I don't have to worry about shit. And while I'm at it, I get to meet some more girls who can be potential lays. I don't challenge anyone and I have nothing to defend.

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I like Marc's advice

Ignore it. The girl's in your lap, gonna be in your bed....why again do you care what he thinks?? Musta missed something.

My advice to you: Care less with what dudes think, and concern yourself more on what WOMEN are doing!;)

Try having a mindset like that when you're a short ugly virgin.

try having a mindset like that and you might not be a short ugly virgin for long

In a loud voice say ''how much money do u want me to give u to make u go away, ur gonna steal this girl way from me man''.

This is not supplication if done loud. Its very touchy as some guys will use anything to start a fight. However u ignoring him has proved effective. If ur tough enough u can tell the girl if she wants to fuck him. If she says no, then that should be enough for him to go.

All the advice given is good.

A note, just by him doing what he did, he already feels that u r inferior to him. If u have the frame u may have to sooner or later challenge him as he will persist.

If he is reasonable talk to him and say ''that was not cool man''. He maybe receptive and not do it again.

This is all a guess. I am no expert.

I won a verbal argument with wit with three amogs. Later one of them wanted to fight me. I left the venue, as I am no expert in fighting.

There is a middle stage in game, when ur just good, this is when amogs will be attracted to u like flies, using u to start a conversation, when u r very good they will be scared off.

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You could try this. Amogs are people too. Sometimes they are borderline retarded and dont understand simple things like making you look stupid. try talking to him confidently but not agressive. But do it like a man not a chick. Say " Hey listen ____, last weekend at the club you made me look stupid infront of _____. I know you are just trying to be funny but don't do that shit infront of girls I'm trying to bed"


This middle stage scared the shit out of me lol. I was wondering why dudes were trying to enter every set I opened. It was fucking wierd because I'm a pretty intimidating guy too.