Girlfriend Lacking Confidence



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 6:36 am 
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Ok so I have an absolutely stunning girl with confidence issues. Every time she looks in the mirror, she picks at things about herself.

The other day when we were send each other tattoo ideas online, I sent her links to a few tattoos on hot girls, and she got so insecure that she told me to stop sending links.

She doesn't think she's very attractive and she gets insecure whenever I talk to other hot girls. She tells me that she wishes she had confidence in her appearance like all the girls she's jealous of do, but she doesn't. I'm thinking this is due to a lack of her getting hit on. For a hot girl, she doesn't participate in a lot of social activities because she does her schoolwork online. So she's stuck in her house all the time instead of experiencing guys hit on her.

To fix her confidence issue, do you think it's a good idea to actually let her walk around in a mall alone to let guys hit on her? I'm confident in her faithfulness, so that's not an issue. I was just curious what everyone's thoughts were to help her self esteem. Again, to give some perspective, this is a very hot girl who has hardly ever been hit on.

Thanks in advance for the replies guys!


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 6:51 am 
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If you're looking to bang it out, even regularly... ignore it all. She's not worth it. Girls with confidence issues have probably had pasts that they won't soon get over.

If she's your girlfriend, and you want to be her hero... (We've all been there and I'm sure I'll be there again one day. =.=) then this is what I'd do. I did this with my girlfriend and it would sate her for at least that night. Compliment her on things that people wouldn't openly notice. If you disagree with her, it will be an argument:
GF: Do I look fat in this?
Hero: Of course not baby you look fine. (NO.)

Instead, I'd say something like, "Damn girl, you're hella fat and I wouldn't have it any other way." in a cheeky, sexy tone. It should take the edge off and depending on her mood, cheer her up. If she's really being emo about it, take this approach:

GF: I'm fat/My face is ugly/why do you like me?
Hero: This is why I like you, your nose (Or something no one else would tend to directly compliment), the way your dimples show when you smile (Or some other personal thing you have noticed with her.)

The point is to divert her attention. If you come against it, she won't let it go.


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