Long time reader, first time poster, looking for a little help.

I'll cut to the chase; I've known this girl for about a year or so, she recently got out of a relationship where she found out her boyfriend was dating someone else.

We both attend a university which is currently on winter-break session, so we have had a lot of time to hang out. I've been able to hook up with her and she has slept over in my bed for THREE nights (she claims she doesn't want to be alone). Things have yet to move forward in the ways I would have hoped, with the furthest her allowing me to get is just getting her topless. When I try to advance, she exclaims that she's "not a whore" (to which I doubt). She's very touchy and otherwise seems into me, I just don't understand where I'm going wrong here, because I've never had this problem before.

Tips/Advice? Would be greatly appreciated.

Hey,

I'm no expert but I want to contribute back to this community in the same way it has taught me like a parent. As usual, correct me if I'm wrong anyone!

Have you tried DiCarlo's escalation ladder?

What you're encountering is similar to LMR due to the societal pressure on women producing ASD. I remember reading somewhere that to overcome ASD, you have to be assertive whilst taking all the responsibility on yourself.

(1) If she says "I'm not a whore", say "I know you're not but I just can't control myself".

(2) Your last option is a freeze out.

Good luck. =]

thank you!