So I'm incredibly attracted to a girl in one of my classes. I get along with her very well plus she's very good looking. I recently just started talking with her when she started sitting next to me in class(so she could talk with her friend who sits near me). It turns out that she thinks I'm really funny and shit like that. So, I added her on Facebook and couldn't help but notice a few days before I even attempted to befriend her, she started going out with some other guy. I proceeded anyways and asked her if she wanted to smoke(she smokes too). Do you think that I should even try? There are very few people that I can get along with fully and I really like her, I know that this could be considered a case of "oneitis" but I don't know what I should do, I'm pretty bummed.

How old are you? You sound young.



'Few people I could get along with'


You need to get a big social circle man, or at least a good core and plenty of associates.

I am 18 years of age. I'm not TOO socially awkward(maybe a little when I'm really nervous) and I don't think I'm ugly, I just have trouble creating relationships with females and what not. I have A LOT of friends, just most of them are guys.