Ok,so here was this girl who had a really badass boyfriend,and they were together for like 4 years,or something.During that period,we heard from each other over the internet(MSN),and we saw each other on parties.Sometimes we would text until morning,and everything would be great,and then she would turn cold.She even gave me her phone,and she doesn't do that with others.

Now she is single,and after a break we started texting over facebook.While she was still with a guy,I almost got her to see me in like 3am,private,only the two of us,but I failed..Now that she is avaible,she tells me that sometimes we can see each other,but just as friends,without relationship or benefits..But then she starts to talk what kind of massage she likes,and that we can do that.

After that she tells me how some boy who is cute to her won't respond to her..She also said that he is a player,always gets girls,and that he is threating her bad..I told her that she was describing me,only that I am good to her.After that she said to me that she can have a nice boyfriend,but she always goes to ones that threat her bad.

What should I do? Should I go direct?Or chill a little while and don't contact her?How should I game her now?

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Hey there!
You should play it smooth, she just broke up with her boyfriend and they spent 4 years together so she need some time for her own, just be around. Do you know what I mean? keep in touch with her. Think about what you have to offer, what makes you different from het boyfriend.

You should find out if she wants to have fun or have a serious relationsip again.
Good luck.

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no.

What she wants is a rebound, Mind you, odds are she won't take you serious because she will rationalize her having sex with you to herself as ' I just needed to get over my ex' ... Just take it for what it is.. Some sex and keep it moving.

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I bet you anything that if he doesn't play it smooth - I'm ok with the sex part- and he doesn't way he's gonna get rejected. I just told him that he has to wait, specially after a 4 year relationship. I don't mean waiting 2 months but at least a couple of days.

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I have a dilemma too.
I mean,that guy who she mentioned..I feel like it was a shit test..And she started to open up to me too,saying all those things,and about how her ex texted her,etc..

I don't really know if I should push it,or smooth it..DAMN

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it's up to you man! You know her better than us and you know yourself better than us.
Do what goes with your personality! Take some time to think and do it

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Invite her for a movie and make your move.

she even said she would see me in my car..and believe me,my car is bad,really bad.but she said we could get some coffe and be in the car..when I mentioned an appartmend,she said she can do that,but then got her shield up saying the part that she doens't want anything then talk.

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When she tries to start rambling about her ex or some other guy, ignore what she sys and change the subject or simply tell her you're not that kind of guy. If you allow her to continue with this behavior, you'll be FZ'd for sure and your chances of boning this girl whether if its from a rebound or possible relationship will drop down to zilch.

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yeah,I remembered that.I even said to her that we are not friends still,because we never saw each other private.and she got pissed,saying things like sorry if Im boring you,etc.

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I always laugh on the inside when girls give me that reaction because its obvious they were trying to get me to be another one of her "girlfriends". It completely reframes how she views you.

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