Few days ago, a hb9 I was dating for like 2 months asked me to sleep over at her place. We went out for diner, and she paid. After that we watched a movie togheter at her place. Everything was normal and fine. We decided to go to bed early, at around 11. But this time was different than usual. After I tried to make a move on her, she started to get really emotional and talked for 2 hours(!) about how she didn't want to lose me as a friend. (we've been good friends for 4 years, but she was dating someone else before.) She told me that she saw me as her best friend, she also told me that she felt more for me than just friends, and admitted she likes me. But she just didn't want to risk our friendship.

She also told me that she visits a psychologist, because she has some issues with herself, i.e. she told me that she doesn't even understand herself. (What is the case with most difficult women I believe). And she had talked about me with the psychologist, and the psychologist told her that it was better for her not to start a relationship soon.

But she also told me that, if in like 6 months she meets a new guy, she couldn't garantee that she wouldn't date him.

The thing is, I don't really now what to do, I always seem to have problems with moving on and forget about the girl. And Í don't think I should this time.

I have never been AFC or anything around her, only if we were lying in bed, I was "nice" to her just to let her know I was enjoying it her presence.

Do you guys have any advice for me, how to get her back to dating me, without being needy or AFC? Should i freeze her out and let her miss me? I would really appreciate your advice/story or experience.