Hi guys long time reader first time poster here,

There's this HB8 I met in the summer, things went really well, we got kissing we clicked well and the best part was that I didn't need to use any of my techniques. It just flowed naturally and it worked. We both knew we fancied the pants off each other.

I said something I shouldn't when we were hanging out once. Not to her to some random 40 year old man (I'm 20) acting like my dad. I was AFC about it, but hey I'd only just started getting in all this. Lesson learnt.

We both live relatively close and we we're both heading on holiday to our home town, (literally the other side of the world) at the same time and she messaged me (6 months after our last contact) and asked to fixed things up. Before the day I was meant to meet her I went clubbing with friends and bumped into her. Within seconds we were are good terms, she kissed me on the cheek and we hugged. Straight after the hug she didn't even look at me and ran off to a friend. She's game. Surprisingly, I wasn't too bothered. I like having fun and chatting with girls but this girl always gets my attention. There's something about her I just dig.

The night went on, I was being my normal confident self, negged her a bit, most of the times we talked we laughed. I got slight IOIs but I fear she's like that with most people. Especially the laughing, she's always laughing with people so that's probably not just me. Cut a long story short, I can't keep her attention. It could be because of me but I think it' coz she's got so many guys drooling after her and she's not the type to give a bitch reply. She's easy to get on with, this kinda encourages the guys more but hey. I'm not threatened by this at all. I think my personality naturally clicks with hers.

Basically, if I could get her attention and stop people coming up to her without being AFC it could be done. I won't have a chance after this. I won't tell you why, nothing to do with pick up, her or me just something else.

So I've been looking through the forum again for some golden tips (been out of pick up for 5 months now). I've found some great ones but most are focused around me and her and not the distractions we have. She knows what she's doing, as I said - she's game. So please point me in the right direction? I need to get it just me and her, or her 100% attention. Oh it's so easy when we're alone, being myself. Other people = distractions. I have 1 night to do it.

Sorry for the long post. Need some advice from the more experienced guys.

What's stopping you from asking her out?