I read when you approach a girl you're supposed to never approach from behind, instead come from the front at a 45 degree angle so she doesn't feel startled. Also lean back so you don't intimidate her- give her space.

But I also read you want to be as close to her as possible so she'll feel comfortable around you and so you can whisper in her ear and such. These two advice contradict one another, now I'm confused.

For this particular one, I think it depends on the vibe, the location, what you're talking about etc. If you're talking to a girl in the day, about something fairly "normal", you probably don't want to be whispering in her ear!

Things will always contradict on here, because there are no set rules. What works for one person won't work for another. So try as much as you can, discard what doesn't work for you, and keep what does.

Also, I wouldn't take things like the angle at which you approach a girl too seriously. If you're worrying about going in at 45 degrees instead of 60, you're probably not in the right frame of mind to make it work anyway!

Methods this day we dont know what is more reliable.

Try and find one who is more suitable.

A friend of mine has great body language. He goes direct he face her completly and has good sucess with the ladies.

So its not a exact science.

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