I've slept with 6 woman, I'm 19 years old and have pretty good experience with the ladies as well as some decent PUA knowledge. I met this girl who is interesting about a week and a half ago. She came over to my place, we did everything but sex for two days straight. I didn't want to rush her into anything because she told she had bad experiences with other guys by going to fast. The next day we went shopping together and I tried to hold her hand and kiss her in public but she wouldn't let me. I let it go for a while but then it seemed like she was pushing me away. So we talked about it and ends up she was confused about us and maybe I was kinda going to fast for her. We decided to slow things down and we've been talking like before again! Now she's coming over tomorrow but I'm scared she might not be down to do shit in bed yet? :S And I usually don't really talk dirty to girls over the internet or on the phone but should I do it sometimes? I usually just stick to regular game like negs, push-pull and being cocky funny. Any thoughts?

First of all Rainman good job by bring this girl to your place. The biggest mistake guys make is going for the sexual kino at the wrong time. If everything was done right the girl will be giving cues she wants you to touch her as opposed to you wanting to touch her. But simple kino should be done right away. such as light touching on the shoulder etc... There are only few reasons why girls wouldn't want to have sex. I'll name few of them. 1)Because there afraid for their reputation being called a slut or being seen as a woman who gives sex easy. 2) Bad experience with sex(rape assault sexual harassment). 3) It's that month of the year she just her period. But in general girls love sex as much as guys do so don't be fooled. It seems like your game is good. The one thing I suggest you improve is your sexual and regular kino escalation.

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Hmm yea i think I know what you mean. I usually just go for a kiss when I get enough IOIs and I don't usually have a problem with this cuz I have confidece in my looks. I got her lying on my shoulder with my arm wrapped round her during a movie the first time. She was obviously down to hook up though because for 2 days straight we did a lot of shit in bed together. Im just not sure if shes down to maybe just fool around or if she wants more than that , but I like her! Also its number 2 for the sex thing because she was once filmed during sex secretly by another guy and the footage was shown to others !

Basically I saw her today, what she meant by slowing down was to actually slow down on the sexual stuff because she revealed some more shit to me about her past life. Apparently, she got sexually abused by her real dad! He's gone now though, but that was some shocking shit to hear. So basically she put the two things together(that and the filming) and she doesn't really trust guys anymore. We kissed a bit today, but I'm gonna have to take it real slow it seems :/
I just wish there was a way to show her that I'm not like other guys...

Nice Rainman I guess I made a right prediction. All you have to do now is take it slow and let her know your not just a guy who looks for one night stands.

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Yeah but now the question is how to prove to her that I'm not like other guys...It seems like anything I tell her, she just says that all guys said the same thing.

She already told you something really big in her life.

That she proably doesnt tell anyone...so you are different.

But you have to prove it by sticking with her, patience, she has valid reasons from trying to slow down things.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!