i kinda have a weird problem with my lover, all im asking for is advice on how i can solve the problem and i ask not to be judged or berated.

problem is about premature ejaculation, it all started like 2 weeks ago.
first few times we had sex it was awesome, absolutly no problem, we had a great time, i lasted as normal, she climaxed no problem and i still went on, all and all it was great sex.

i cared about her from the second i met her, and i fell really hard in love with her and i heard that really caring for a girl can make this type of shit happen, i discussed this with her because we both got frustrated to the point she said i dont wanna sleep with her anymore( in reality i was afraid as shit that its gonna happen again and again...) i never had these kind of problems, when im on my own and i go for it i have no problem, sometimes i find it hard to reach climax.

i dont know what to think, i mean physical there's no problem cause we had great sex and it still was with her and it was still me, and im shitting my pants cause this thing is clearly getting to us both and , ive been talking to her about this and she said no problem we're gonna try to solve it, but im thinking to myself that i gotta do something about it really fast otherwise its gonna end badly...

i tried masturbating before, multiple times, to the points i cant climax on my own... it's all about her , my libido sky-rockets when i get in bed with her, to the points i dont even have build-up to my climax it just happens out of nowhere.

i really dont know what to do, maybe some of you guys although it is somewhat of a "TABU" concept to talk with other guys, may have gone threw something like this and can give me some advice on how to solve it... anything, cause trust me i finished her hands only 4 times to the point she said its half pleasure half pain, but its not the same... and i really dont want to loose this girl over this type of shit.

help!

Vio.

Relax mate.

Is she your first girlfriend?

Did you have problems with other girls?

I think you are too "happy" with this girl, and you get nervous and over excited.

My advice is:

Go to the gym

Try multiples sex with this girl, thing is only over excitement because she is your new plaything , that libido will decrease.

And dont worry, there are alot of ways you can make a girl cum. They prefer if you go oral with them.

If the problem continue I would see a specialist.

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