can anyone that knows tell me what I said wrong? why she didn't reply?

this is on facebook.. I got this girl talking where the previous message she didnt answer. I recently just started doing this online but when I try to do it in person its hard to think of what to say, I have to work on that.


shes a HB9

ME :
hey, how did your holidays go?

Christmas used to be my favorite time of the year but it sucks now compared to the memories I had growing up. I remember one time when I was young I woke up to a white christmas, I looked out the window and my little eyes just lit up seeing everything covered in snow, especially the trees, its a beautiful scene if you picture it but you forget how cold it is outside.

HER:
hey it went pretty good...howd it go for you? did you get everything you wanted? but yes i know what you mean...i miss being a kid. christmas was so much better back then. its very different now


ME:
those were magical times, especially opening presents and getting what you want, I knew I wasnt going to get anything I wanted so I bought myself a hdtv, nintendo wii and a blu ray player.. I been admiring these things for a while so I made myself happy.

I miss being a kid too, those times were fun and having no responsibilities was the best part of it. I remember being able to wear pajamas all day and no one saying anything and having no where to go. it's like you had no worries in the world and everything revolved around that day.

To be blunt, you didn't send her anything interesting to which to respond. You would have been better off if you would've made a joke about something that she typed or asked her "how is it different for you now?"

You're talking way too much. Women want to talk about themselves, not read extensive paragraphs about your childhood. If you're going to open with a question like "hey, how did your holidays go?" , then leave it at that.

Ask her questions about herself. You can insert tiny tidbits of information about yourself in between question but don't spend alot of time on yourself. If she wants to learn more about you,unless she's shy, then she will ask you a question.

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reread the messages you sent her. theyre boring, negative and depressing. why on earth would she want to continue a conversation like that?

This statement is negative and depressing. Why on earth would you want to post a comment like that?

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"Simple. Escalate, if she's into you, she will escalate with you, if not, you will know soon enough." - SexAddict911

you can only ask one or two questions, thats the whole point of talking in statements, woman talk in statements.

Who ever set the limit of how many questions you can ask?

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What you just said doesn't make any sense. I am unaware of the outcome for which you are aiming. If you want to have a chance of success with women, then make use of my advice.

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"Simple. Escalate, if she's into you, she will escalate with you, if not, you will know soon enough." - SexAddict911

I agree, take his advice. Give her open-ended statements. Say something that you know she'll probably ask you questions about. Lead her into asking you questions
open ended statement
You-"Yeah I hate flying, I had such a bad experience when I was young, it scarred me for life!"
Her-"OMG, what happen?"
boring statement
You- Yeah I hate flying. Flying made me feel bad when I was little. Alot of things made me feel scared like gophers and butterflies . Blah, blah, blah.....
Her-( doesn't give a s***)
This talking in statements stuff will get you no where fast. Ask her questions, how else will you get to know her?

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "