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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2012 8:41 pm 
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Never sure how to answer this.
If you say too high a number she might think "he's a player or i'll be just another notch on the bed post"
Too low and she might think "Can't get many girls, limited pre selection etc." DLV

Do you always tell the truth?
keep her guessing/ avoid the question?

I spent the last 9 months travelling with the majority in asia where it's ridiculously easy to get laid. I was a virgin until i was 18, slept with 1 girl in england, then went travelling and have now slept with 24, all one night stands. Whenever someone asks i tell the truth and i feel they all seem to turn off.

Additional info: never had a girl friend and never slept with the same girl twice : so realistically im actually rather inexperienced with both relationships and sex but the number gives a much different impression.

thoughts anyone?
As always much appreciated


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I have been on both sides of this, too few, and then too many. I have found that I will never share this number with another woman as long as I live. You can be playful about it. These days I just let them know that their number doesn't matter to me and that mine shouldn't to them. What matters is the here and the now.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2012 9:15 pm 
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thanks for the response.

Recently i've tried to be playful and joke it off but they seem really persistent. I joke, we laugh and then they say "no, i was being serious, how many?" and i just come clean.
Any examples of playful ways to move on to something else/ past the question? or should i just let them know i dont care about their number an they shouldn't care about mine (although that makes it out to be like im guilty/got something to hide.)


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Yeah, that will happen. First tell her something like 999 thousand. When she calls you out. Tell her your a virgin and have never seen a boobie. She is still going to persist though, but never give up the answer.


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I never disclose althought I haven't been asked that in a long time tho


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2012 10:51 pm 
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Stuff is: If you say 1000 you are bragging if you say you are a virgin thats a pussy.

So I say something like a few . . . make her figure out herself. When she is in your room and then sees some photos on the wall with a nice girl around say her thats one of my ex girlfriends. Comes good that you have still a good connection to them.


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42. If she gets it you can change the subject, if not let her think it's a real answer.


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